3 months ago I told my girlfriend I wanted some time apart because things were moving fast, and we were getting pretty serious. My girlfriend was very upset, but I insisted and we didnt see each other for a month. When I realized how much I loved her I asked her to take me back. At first she was still angry at me, but she finaly took me back.We are happy for the past two months, but last week I asked if she had dated anyone while we were apart - I did not.I found out she not only did date but she even slept with someone she knows from her gym and someone from her work (at different times), she she had regular sex with both, until they both broke it off. she was hurt by them using and dumping her as well as me rejecting her. Im jealous, but I know i hurt her too. we have discssed the details, though it is hard. this way i let her know it is ok to talk about how she was hurt,but also about how she enjoyed the sex, which she tells me she did - and she has told me new things i can try!
2006-12-06 21:50:33 · 3 answers · asked by downtokissit 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
of course i dont know her personally to judge - but one month is such a short time to date AND sleep with 2 different guys, and it happened regularly. and think - you asked for space - not breakup, did she even wait?
if you really love her (what things do you love about her?) - and can really forget what happened, you did the right thing. but first you must also be sure she loves you back and wont compare you to anyone else, and of course be loyal to each other after that.
2006-12-06 22:05:20 · answer #1 · answered by rinkumi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 15:32:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you expect her to be ... a nun? so your pride is hurt...figure out what you want and communicate or move on. either way ...bury it...your not a saint and neither is she..humans do that.
2006-12-06 21:58:58 · answer #3 · answered by koalatcomics 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋