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Question

i really like this girl at my school but she dosen't know it because i haven't told her i think that she thinks i'm more like a friend. And other thing is that this other girl likes me and i don't want break her heart.

so what should i do? open up to the girl i like?

and most important i don't want to break anyones heart.

Answer 1

I had the exact same problem. You can read me question. You're like me. How happy =') Anyway, wait a bit. Let her gather her senses and she will love you like you love her. Time will help its self don't worry, at one point she will love you. Don't break the other girl's heart. That is a very hard thing to do when you love someone else. You can do that by saying "Angel,(you can her name) I am afraid I cannot accept your love. Please don't cry for me. I know you have the power to love again."Don't tell her you like someone!

Answer 2

Get to know the girl you like slowly through a friendship because then you will know if you have something in common with her? Get to know the other girl as well as a friend. What ever you do don't confide in the girl that likes you because you don't want to cause jealous feelings.

I wouldn't open up to her until you are actually dating her and you have known her long enough to ask her to go steady with you. You first have to get to know her and see if the relationship grows from a friendship into a relationship. That is the best way to go.

When I was much younger I was lucky to have a friend who I happen to have had a crush on who let me down easy. He told me that he liked me as a friend. I knew all his girlfriends and was never jealous of any of them.

I respected him because he was kind to me. Also his friendship taught me how to let others down easy. When you treat people good then they will remember you for that. Another thing too is when you develop friendships with in a circle of people then you can always meet others through those friendships.

Answer 3

Well unfortunately in love is always like this, one gains but the other looses, and I think one of the girls will be with her heart broken.But it's good that you have rational thoughts!I think you should try to tell the girl that you like her and see her reaction, maybe something will happen between you two:)And as for the other girl, try to talk to her and explain that you really like you two to be just a friends and who knows?Maybe with time you wil get attracted to her.You never know, maybe her personality is more beautiful than her look!Good luck!

Answer 4

Open up to the girl that you like if you feel like you can take the possibility of rejection. If you still can't, let your friendship with her grow first. Then maybe when you think it's more likely for her to see you as more, tell her.

Just tell her when you think it's right.

But remember that broken hearts are really unavoidable. Yours could get broken too. So just try to follow your instincts and your heart.

Answer 5

The answer depends on you if you like that girl sooooo much that you can break one or may be two hearts for her then i think that you shld tell her but if the feeling is not strong then you can go for that who likes you.
OR
You should try n ask the girl which you like nd if she says no then try the one who likes you.

Answer 6

The question is how long will you keep your feelings to the girl you like?....if you want to keep it longer is it up to your guts how will u tell her that u like her. And how will you know if you have a chance to this girl you like if you will not come out to your shell. Tell her, but just dont expecting something in return that she like you too. It's up to the girl what is her reaction if you tell her, and also if you want to go beyond more than friends realtionship with this girl you like court her and do your best that you win her heart. but as what i said don't expect something in return just do your part. Its like how can a match creat a fire if you just stare on it ?. rright?..so strike it so that you know what is her reaction.....

And also the other girl, that like you...maybe you just have to be honest with yourself, if you can only offer friendship to her so be it. Maybe someother time she will get by to what she felt in you.....honestly it's up to you how to handle in this situation, if you want to be silent coz you don't want other person to get hurt so be it, I just hope that you will not regret any decision you just have made.

Answer 7

Start hanging around her with your group of friends. Let her see how you act around them. This will help her to get to know you. You could also ask her if you can sit with her at lunch or walk her to class. If you and your friends have plans for the weekend invite her along. I think that you two would then be able to get to know each other. She sounds special. With this other girl, let her know how much her friendship means to you and you could even tell her that you don't want to date her because you don't want to risk the friendship you two have built.

Answer 8

Hearts are made to break, go for the girl you like, tell her, and the other one who likes you will realize the truth and resign herself.

Answer 9

You sound like a very caring person but remember honesty is the best policy. Follow your heart and do what it tells you to do.

Answer 10

you are very sensitive. alot of guys are not like that. i think you should ask the girl you like to go out with you. the other girl will get the messsage and will deal with it in her own way. its better that she finds out early and maybe try and find someone else now.

if you tell the other girl that you dont like her that way, you could embarass her and it could be worse for her.