I had a fight with my boyfriend and the next morning he called me to say that he was no longer in love with me. Is it possible that he fell out of love ? Or is it that he never ever loved me..???
2006-12-06 20:48:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The way I see it, if you are really in love with someone that never goes away. It might be that you cant be/live with that person. My exboyfriend and I still have love for eachother but at the same time we understand that we were not good for eachother in that way. Now we are the best of friends and talk about everything. Give him some time though, he might just be going through alot of emotions right now.
2006-12-06 20:53:38 · answer #1 · answered by zoelynn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry Dear.... ya people can fall out of love. But that cannot happen in just one argument.
People fall out of love depending on their situation. It could be that they've fallen for someone else or that the person they're with have changed and they don't see that "person" they fell in love in the first place. It could be habits which one party can't stand. They may have a feud which doesn't mend, or sometimes, it's just too emotionally taxing on each other. Relationships take time and commitment, and when one party can't fulfill that, things start to change. So in your bf's case there could be any of these reason.
Healing after a break up is probably one of the most difficult things to do. Feelings are being hurt and then hurt again, because you miss his company and the little things that he actually DID do (right), regardless of all the things that have been and still are an issue. Healing after a break up takes time. That won't happen overnight, especially when you have been together for a longer period of time.
My suggestion is to accept your feelings as they come, rather than fight them. Accept your negative feelings as part of the break up that you go through. It helps. It also helps to tell your friends how you feel. Let go of some air.
I hope that this helped you somewhat.
I wish you Good Luck & God Bless
2006-12-06 21:20:20 · answer #2 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
izzit the first time that u guys fought? or has such stuff(after fight breakups) happened before.
well...true love can last thru a lot of hard times. and if your fella really loved u..then probably it was just a reaction from your fight. he probably thinks u over-reacted and wants to make u feel the hurt that he probably felt... so give him some time and after that initiate some small talk...see if he's cooled off.
give it a shot. in time u'll know for sure whether he's fallen outta love or is he just mad at yor outburst.
2006-12-07 17:36:03 · answer #3 · answered by jaded angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he fell out of love with you that fast, then I'm sure he was never really in love with you to begin with. It must have been a horrendous fight!! If he would break up with you like that, be glad and get on with your life - you don't want someone like that in it anyway. You'll be fine.
2006-12-07 00:17:48 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. G. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person can fall out of love. Feelings change. However, if someone changes their feelings in a matter of one night, how strong were they to begin with?
2006-12-06 20:51:03 · answer #5 · answered by Girl In IL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He never ever loved you. When you truly fall in love, you don't fall out of love so easily.
2006-12-06 22:14:21 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh u cant fall out of love, in one argument..love is not like that...love grows gradually, and its awfully difficult to get out of it.
maybe that guy, doesnt understand english, for he doesnt know where to use such lines!
or maybe he never really loved u at all.
such people are better left alone
hey good riddance!
2006-12-06 20:53:54 · answer #7 · answered by roman_fantasy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you can fall out of love. He did love you or still does. It just matters what the argument was about.
2006-12-06 20:53:27 · answer #8 · answered by metalalien@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy to fall out of love
2006-12-06 20:52:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, sounds like he uses the word love lightly, and frequently concluding that he doesn't know what the word really means.
2006-12-06 21:23:08 · answer #10 · answered by hot single mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋