I got in to an argument online with a friend of mine. We both said some stupid things but then she goes and calls me fatty and that got me mad. She is overweight too and it would be easy to point that out but I didn't. The argument was over my telling her that she is self centered and she said the same to me. Reality check is that I am not self centered, everyone tells me that, although I admit I am selfish at times. I don't know where to go from here, I told her I was sorry for hurting her feelings several times, she never said sorry. She got mad because I said I wasn't jealous of her, blah blah. In any event she said some mean things and I don't really get much from her for a friendship because she is always focusing on hersef. I am the last friend that has hung around because I keep thinking things will change. I don't know what to do. She is a taker not a giver and doesn't appreciate what others do for her. I hate to lose a friend but my feelings are hurt now.
2006-12-06 20:42:37 · 8 answers · asked by Serinity4u2find 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, she broke a big rule there by using insults in an argument. After you've all made up, it's very difficult to forget when someone has let their temper get the better of them and said something really cruel.
If this girl is capable of saying something like that to you, no matter how angry she was at the time, she is not a true friend. She has shown her true colours here. No matter how heated things get, personal attacks like that are uncalled for. I know I wouldn't forgive a friend for saying something like that to me, because I'd know she meant it.
2006-12-06 20:47:15 · answer #1 · answered by helly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Angel, don't let this get to you. You can still repair your relationship with her if you act fast. But by the looks of it, she should't be your friend. I am very sorry if I am a offending you. If she doesn't change her personality,(i mean just a bit more reasonble.) I am afraid you have a slim chance of getting back with her. Believe in yourself. (That is my overall moral.)
2006-12-07 04:48:30 · answer #2 · answered by - Eiren - 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey uve said ure sorry several times, and well she hurt ur feeling stoo rite, so just leave it at that...do things normally, and if ure the only friend she has around, she will come back to u.
friendships dont cease to exist, just like that, they have a history.
and close friends always come around.
take care.
all da best.
have a great life.
2006-12-07 04:47:25 · answer #3 · answered by roman_fantasy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive and be friends again. Don't let any argument to break up this friendship..
2006-12-07 04:48:50 · answer #4 · answered by JAson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and you called this a friendship? You both sound immature and mean.It's just she outpointed you in meanness.If you are not any of these things,give her a gift and then delete her from your list.Some cyber friendships are great,while others are temporary in terms of lenght and scope.
2006-12-07 04:50:28 · answer #5 · answered by Daddy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right or wrong.....just apologize and move on. Forgive, forget and move on.
2006-12-07 04:45:54 · answer #6 · answered by Trollhair 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are no arguments between close friends,
if so then she is a closed friend.
2006-12-07 06:15:22 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apologize to her , i am sure she will do the same thing, do not waste your friendship
2006-12-07 06:13:23 · answer #8 · answered by HADEEL MAZIN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋