I have been with my boyfriend 2 years and on friday past we had an arguement in a resteraunt which I shall admit was my fault as I went mental at him for no reason in front of the waiter! Since then we havn't got on very well and i thought i was gonna lose him, i was really upset and crying etc, but we tried to patch things up y/day and he thinks everything is ok again, but since y/day afternoon i have felt like I don't want to be near him and i can't feel love for him, this only happened y/day so do you think I am just being selfish and in a slight mood or what? I need answers so please help?!
2006-12-06 20:28:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's a sign you don't want to be with him anymore.
2006-12-06 20:44:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships go through periods of love/hate, especially young ones like yours. Wait it out for awhile. It's probably just a mood caused by knowing the fight was pretty much your fault and you are embarrassed by it. Something will probably come along that will make you remember why you love him so much and everything will be all right in the end.
2006-12-07 04:35:02 · answer #2 · answered by Joanne B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think this has nothing to do with love, i think you didn't love him you just got used to him and being with you all the time but when something bad happened between both of you, you felt the real feeling coming from inside or let me say your hear.. i believe that you don't love him.. so if you want don't leave him just think that he might not be the right person for you to fall in love with
2006-12-07 04:34:51 · answer #3 · answered by Shereen N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If anything, it should be the bloke who would not want to be near you after what happened.
It sounds like your a tad mental so I would break it off for his sake.
Seriously, what is it with women and chucking random tantrums in public. I thought women were supposed to be the mature ones...
2006-12-08 08:07:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself why you feel the way you feel. Ask what is it that you want from relationship. Are you still ashamed of that argument and you just feel like crap? It will pass. Are you just in a bad mood, or there is a real reason that you don't want to be around him.
2006-12-07 04:33:24 · answer #5 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, something's causing you to be moody. Try to patch things up, and tell him how you're feeling. Not in a harsh way.
2006-12-07 04:35:49 · answer #6 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are normal. But how about the next time you fell like going off on him you just have sex with him instead. Having sex while angry leads to great sex. Just don't go too crazy & do something like spit in his face... unless that is what you are into that is...
2006-12-07 05:03:05 · answer #7 · answered by John C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey consult your heart....it best knows the answer....it just whispers then follow whst it says and you'll never go astray...if it isn't love, you know what to do....if it's otherwise, do your part if you don't want to lose him...
2006-12-07 05:07:25 · answer #8 · answered by krung2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called PMS, honey.
2006-12-07 05:06:13 · answer #9 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i go thro this with myhusband a lot, even i am finding some solutions.
2006-12-07 05:34:38 · answer #10 · answered by best 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋