a guy is chasing me ........i hate him...hate him...more than anything else!!he told my all friends that he loves me and something is going to happen with me on his b"day.......what should i do??????i want to get rid of him...........
his b"day is on 3rd jan.
help!!!!!!!!!
thanks..
2006-12-06 20:01:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i dont have any elder brother!!!
i hate him because he told all my frndz that on his b"day...............
2006-12-06 20:31:32 · update #1
Hi Dear,
Sounds like this guy is not going to leave you alone. Why don't you complain to you parents about this guy. Let your parents lodge a complain against him in the police. Secondly tell all your friends not to speak to him at all. If possible leave town with your family and don't inform anyone where you all are going during his birthday. Let him rot here.
But you have to inform some of the elders about this situation before its too late. They will definitely find some solution to your problem and find someway to get rid of this letch.
Good Luck
2006-12-06 21:45:00 · answer #1 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sounds very creepy,maybe you should get him when all your friends are there and make sure he gets the hint you dont like him,make a show of him in front of your friends,sometimes people are thick skinned and only see what they want to see so if you have never told him(properly) how you feel and how you do not like him then he will just have it in his head that there is a chance for you both.
Other than that,stay out of his way on the 3rd,make sure you have plenty of friends around you incase he does anything you dont approve of,you have back up then.
If that doesnt work tell him your reporting him to the fuzz for harrassment
2006-12-06 21:54:44 · answer #2 · answered by freerange00720002000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
Me 2 i was in the same state with you! Believe me you must not stay idle ans b afraid of that chap rite!
Be courageous and you will see that he will abandon on his own, don't think what am telling you is impossible, me 2 i thought the same like you, despite my friends told me not to be afraid, i couldn't remove that fray-er inside me!
One day i stood on my feet and say, he is not feeding me so why should i be afraid! Go and tell him that you are not afraid and the law exist
you will see that he will be afraid, if he really wanted yo do something to you, he would' have told you in advance, believe me my dear!
Be confident and don't let others walk on you
Be brave and good luck
2006-12-07 14:15:17 · answer #3 · answered by Varuna a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey u didnt told the exact reason for hating that guy.
If u r hating that guy strongly means then how did u remembered his exact birth date in your mind(sorry to tell like this).Speak frankly to him. it may change his mind or change your mind(both will be good na...)
Still u hatting that guy and u r a strong hearted lady more than 18 years means then boldly ask that guy to take you to his home tell the matter to their parents(he can not fool you in future[Also u dont go alone with him, ask your any two of friends to come with you.]).
2006-12-08 00:03:29 · answer #4 · answered by Vasanth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I'd stay totally out of sight on his birthday. Don't even leave your house. Tell your family what is happening and that you need help. I wish you had told us your ages. You and your friends should never respond to him when it has anything to do with you. That only encourages him to continue what he is doing. Take care and be safe.
2006-12-07 00:27:20 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. G. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is not doing anything else except proclaiming his luv then i think u shud try to talk 2 him maybe u also start liking him(Iam assuming that there is no strong reason with u 2 hate him).
Dont get worried about 3rd jan he cant do anything!!
2006-12-06 23:21:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear
You have not told the exact reason for hating the person
you cannot hate a person who is only loving you (sorry if you feel heart of this wordings) but it is true and you have not given the exact reason for hating the person to whom you are talking about.The first thing that the person should know that he may man or women dont try to hate any-body hating other person is not the solution for that but i like to tell you that you should talk to the person in personal about whatever your problems are regarding him and say him you love me but i dont love you because of your any reason and dont want to have any relation with him with your polite language without hurting him and frustrating yourself for having in this situation.So talk to him and solve the problem with him running away is not the solution for your answer lessen from him what he wants to tell you who knows you change your mind about thinking thim and the more you hate him who knows then you starts more and more loving him inst ed of hating him.(Sorry if i heart you but you have to talk to this person once's and try to solve your problem alone (please let me know about my solution)
2006-12-06 20:13:33 · answer #7 · answered by love u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore it , show him that you don't care , he's just checking you out . So i advice you relax you know this kind of humans are looser ...Be yourself and you know well whom to call if ever he make something won't acceptable for you and take care .
2006-12-06 20:07:40 · answer #8 · answered by eternity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go to his birthday party. sounds like youre going to get raped. you dont have an older brother do you? cause that would be a good solution. "stay awya from my sister!" POW!
p.s. that lesbian thing wont work, trust me.
2006-12-06 20:04:29 · answer #9 · answered by fuck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report him to the police and get a restraining order.
2006-12-06 20:02:30 · answer #10 · answered by Abtsolutely 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋