Is it normal to feel ambvilent towards your marriage at times.?

Question

I've been married for over a decade. Sometimes I feel like I may have made a terrible mistake, but most of the times, I don't. Is that normal. How is it that I can I be feeling like that?

Answer 1

I think everybody questions their relationships at times. If you start to question it more frequently there may be some issues you need to discuss with your spouse or a therapist.
Don't worry... it's normal to wonder how things would have been if you did something different.

Answer 2

I would say that you are a normal person. Congratulations you have been with the same person good times, bad times, happy times sad times and working it on out for 10 YEARS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Not many people want to even try to do that. they always want the easy way out. Yes what you are feeling is normal. You may be feeling like am i wasting my time, is someone out there better, why did i do this....well still you have stickwithitness. Something a lot of people dont have. You are to congratulated seriously. Your feelings will pass, dont give up! You are GREAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 3

I would say so every one feels at times and wonders if they made a mistake if good is more than bad ok if the bad is more than good nope your probably in trouble

Answer 4

Totally normal. You are allowed your moods. When you feel that way remind yourself of the things that are wonderful about your husband and your relationship. If you have a specific issue with him, it is only fair that you let him know. Do it without assigning blame,"when you do X I feel...."

Answer 5

It's normal to feel this way sometimes,
life not a bed of Roses .

Answer 6

I feel that way sometimes ... but then I start thinking about how wonderful my husband can be ... and that feeling dissipates. NOBODY is perfect.

Answer 7

Yes everbody has that kinda feeling...nothing to worry it subsides...