i am an arab
2006-12-06 18:49:10 · 12 answers · asked by mjallebawalsah21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
thinking about it is a betrayal. to be untrue in your mind, and your heart is just as bad as being untrue in the physical.
2006-12-06 18:52:32 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
To all those who are asking what does being an Arab have to do with it.
In some Arabic countries, mainly Islamic, the man is allowed to have 2 or 3 women, 1 for family, 1 for business and 1 for pleasure, but he has to treat them all equal.
It is known that most marriages are pre arranged ones or made by agreement, so if after 13 years he find nothing interesting in his marriage my advice is to take counseling and to talk to his wife with honesty, it is the only way to solve such a problem.
2006-12-07 03:49:50 · answer #2 · answered by sawayalfred 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
*sawayalfred: That is not true.
*mjallebawalsah21: You said that you haven't betrayed your wife in 13 years. What do you want? A cookie? She didn't betray you either. But you didn't look at it that way, did you? Basically, you're a selfish as*hole.
edited because neither is worth it.
2006-12-07 04:24:25 · answer #3 · answered by Purple 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am married too (more than 10 years) and I do have "urges" sometime but what I seperate a man of words and committements to a cheater is your moral values and ethics and control on your organs.
Otherwise everybody will be screwing each other if we don't follow certain rules by the society.
Culture doesn't matter here my friend...it is your character which matters.
Good luck.
2006-12-07 03:14:03 · answer #4 · answered by GS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what if you're an arab? why betray someone you love after 13 years! there may be issues that needs solving and i hope you work it out with her and not with someone else!
2006-12-07 02:56:13 · answer #5 · answered by gigi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All those thoughts and those fantasies..take them home to your wife. 13 years of marriage gone?
2006-12-07 03:19:32 · answer #6 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to think: if she betrays you, what will you feel? marriage is an obligation, it's a mutal obligation.
2006-12-07 04:26:10 · answer #7 · answered by eureka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont cheat , dont break trust. This aint got anything to do with religion.
2006-12-07 03:22:22 · answer #8 · answered by funnysam2006 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what does being arab have to do with it.....dont betray her. thats all
2006-12-07 02:51:57 · answer #9 · answered by xovenusxo 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What does arab have to do with it? If you love her dont betray her, end of story!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-07 03:11:47 · answer #10 · answered by turnpage692002 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋