I'm a Leo. My son is a Sagittarius. We have trouble connecting. Why?

Question

My daughter is an Aquarius and we get along fine. What do I need to know about Sagittarius to get along with my son better?

GEEZ! I thought I was in the horoscope section! Gimme a break!

OK, I realize that the stars are not causing our problems. I do not "rely on the stars" to fix problems with my son. I am specifically asking a question about Leo/Sagittarius relationships just to get a different perspective on my problem (which is not that serious, by the way--my son is 5. We just happen to butt heads occasionally) I was hoping someone on here know a little astrology and might give me some info on what they know--just for fun!

So if you don't know anything about the stars, please don't answer. I'm not interested in your psychological analysis.

Answer 1

From what I've seen, since Leo and Sagittarius are both Fire signs, these two signs can either get along great as parent/child or they can really butt heads -- in both situations, because they are alike in many ways. Leo and Sagittarius both like attention, but Leo likes others to come to him or her. Aquarius tends to dole out that attention, is often very social and fun. Sagittarius on the other hand, can be a bit moody and tends to be overly-dramatic. If your son is a teen, this moodiness and drama can be especially over blown.

To help you get along better, you need to realize that Sag's tend to say things that they don't mean - they just blurt things out, and can be brutally honest at times. Try not to take it personally if he does this. :) Also, since they are so dramatic, they can tend to hold grudges against others, so try to give the Sag alittle more attention than your used to having to do.

If nothing else, remember the Sag has a great heart, but can be a real pain sometimes, to put it mildly. Sometimes you just have to remember that and take them with a grain of salt. They can also tend to lack self-esteem (although they don't like to admit it) and may try to overcompensate for that. Coming down on him too hard won't get you very far with him.

As your Sag child gets older, this can become a very good relationship for the two of you. Remember that! By trying to seek out the ways in which you two can have a meeting of minds, you're already on the right track. And best of luck to you.

Answer 2

Your son is only 5 so it probably seems this way for reasons that have nothing to do with his sign. It's probably just the fact that he's just a really young kid right now. Trust me I'm very sure all this will change the older he gets. I'm a Sagittarius and I get along excellent with Leos. I have tons of Leos in my family and my boyfriend is one as well. Leo, Sagittarius, and Aries are all fire signs. We usually get along great with each other. I can guarantee that a couple of years down the road when he gets older you'll see that it had nothing to with his sign. It's just the fact that he's a 5 year old kid right now.

Answer 3

You have to know that him being a sagittarius has nothing to do with the connection between the 2 of you. Despite popular belief, even if zodiac signs are accurate, there are still many ways for someone to break the mold. Perhaps that may be the problem....that you're trying to fit your son into a mold he doesn't belong in. Get to know him. Learn the things he likes. Go into his room and just observe (no, i didn't say snoop). There has to be SOMETHING you have in common. Go with that. Knowing your son is a sagittarius is not enough...that merely tells you when he was born. There is a great possibility that 2 people born on the same date can be complete opposites. Keep this in mind. Also keep in mind that if your son is a teen, he might just have to outgrow this stage. If that is the case, allow him to outgrow it comfortably. It may be difficult, but he might just need space. He might just simply need your support in letting him be independent.

Answer 4

You're both fire signs.!!!!

Fire signs tend to be overbearing, impatient, arrogant, and sometimes irresponsible.

Also, fire signs are natural leaders. So you may be having an astrological face off. All you'd need is an Aries in the mix, and I would guarantee an explosion.

Bottom line is, you both probably have to learn how to listen to each other, and compromise(fire signs are terrible at this, I'd know, I'm an Aries) in certain situations. Obviously, you're the boss, being the parent, but know that as a Sagittarius, he's prone to pridefullness, and won't like that one bit. He's probably a little too honest for his own good and a little immature for his age.

He's going to constantly test your authority, if he doesn't see the logic behind your decisions. If your decisions don't pass his tests of reasoning, he'll completely defy your orders, but if you're honest and fair with him. He'll have an easier time respecting you. You have to be firm with him, when you're right, and explain to him why you're right, and if you're wrong you have to come out and admit it. He respects honesty. His nature is to look for hypocrisy in adults, and resent it.

Also, freedom is something very important to the Sagittarius, and him possibly doing his own thing is very much a part of the Sagittarian way of doing things. He may

Answer 5

Of path :) How would I be double hearth (perhaps triple hearth) and now not like my loved ones :) I was once simply considering it at present, and I consider that I like Aries essentially the most, even though I could positioned Leo both on the identical degree or an overly near moment. I adore it while men and women have extra features of Aries of their chart frequently considering that they're so full of life and humorous. I am now not a fan nevertheless of Aries Mercury considering that it does now not bode good w. my Capricorn Mercury :p Favorite Mercury is a air signed Mercury-----their reward is conversation and I can concentrate to all of them day :) I like Sadge too, principally whether it is their emerging or moon signal---consider moon essentially the most. I love all of that vigour they've. It is truthfully lovely darn robust. Not a lazy element in any respect and I love that :) I've dated men w. Sadge, and Leo Venus indicators and even though the appeal is robust, it does not appear to final---my fargin Scorpio Venus is wayyyyyyyyyy an excessive amount of for a Sadges convenient going, mild hearted process to like and Leo wanted an excessive amount of stroking and concentration which on the whole was once now not reciprocal. I have on no account dated an Aries Venus, however I consider the identical disorders could practice. Me: Sadge w. Leo Moon, Scorpio Venus and Mars

Answer 6

I hate it when people answer Astrology questions in a negative light. If you don't believe it, then why waste your time commenting!??!?! God! Okay, well, I personally believe in astrology and I would say that because you two are both fire signs, especially a Leo and a Sag, you will butt heads because you have a lot of common traits that naturally causes tenion and friction is all your relationships. Once he gets older, a sag will tend to calm down a little, and due to your two's leadership quailty and your bond to wanting to get things done fast, you'll bond easier. And aquarius loves to be loved! They love attention and they bond easier with parents.

Good luck~

Answer 7

Well, I'm Not Sure That Horoscpoes Have To Do With Relationships With Other People.. But That Also Takes Part.. Maybe You Need To Get To Know Him Better.. Spend More Time With Him Maybe. Maybe Your Daughter "Understands" You More..

Answer 8

Leo's are wonderful leaders and like to fulfill their responsibilitys to the fullest, but they tend to be somewhat over protective and sometimes can be a bit stubburn.

Sagittarians are free birds, they, like leo's, need to express themselves and have their own individuality. Sagittarians like to do things in "style" and sometimes can over-do it, and when over doing this at a young age, it can be a mean streak to break when they are in adult hood.

The best advice I can give you even if you weren't having troubles connecting, would be to go to Tarot.com and have your birth chart done, and perhaps your kids birth chart as well.

You put in your birth time, place, date, etc. and it will be able to accurately provide lots of insight into yourself. I bet you will be just as amazed as I was, (and everyone I knew that I bought their charts for them christmas).

This is the best answer I could give, since I don't know you or the situation or whatever :)

Good luck!

Answer 9

The stars can't change the relationship you have with your son, your husband, your daughter or anyone else. Certain personalities work better together than others, and at different stages of a person's life they are different, but the stars have little effect on us.

Answer 10

Because you are not open to that possibility of connecting.
Just listen to your son. and acknowledge him. do not judge him .ask him what he thinks and guide him where he needs to be . not where you would like him to be. you do not own your son.
your job as his dad is to prepare him for HIS life not your life.
do this lassier fare( leave the people alone) approach to child rearing. teach self reliance, and your son will never need to rebel. it has nothing to do with silly horoscopes Love and respect your son as a human being.OH very important, do not compare him to his sister.