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What is your outlook on same sex relationships?

I have a friend that works with me who is openly gay, but yet very respectful about it (i.e doesn't flirt with anybody who is not gay, and doesn't try to make anybody uncomfortable with it) yet alot of people at work are really hateful to him because of what he belives in and likes. I was just wondering what everybody's outlook on this subject was... serious answers please...

Answer 1

Same sex relationships are normal in my world. And I'm straight.

I understand the Christian perspective. I understand the perspectives of other religions that disapprove of homosexual relationships. They are taught that it is wrong, that is what they believe, and I'm kind of tired of arguing with people on the issue of faith. I just want to learn to respect their views even if I disagree or feel those views contribute to hate.

The problem that I have is when people assume they know what is best for America and the world by saying same sex relationships are "destroying the country." It's a serious exaggeration, and it is an insult to people who are gay and just want to live their lives.

I also see it no different than the attitudes people had (and some still have) toward interracial or interfaith relationships. I firmly believe many (not all) homosexuals are born "pre-wired" to become gay; therefore, I believe homosexuality and same sex relationships are natural. That and the fact that they can be found rather commonly in the animal world.

Thanks for asking.
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Answer 2

I don't see it as anything to have an outlook ABOUT. What people refuse to understand is it's not a right or wrong issue .. it just IS. They can't help who they're intinctively attracted to anymore than I can help being attracted to the opposite sex, it's just the way they're wired.

The only reason people are hateful and bigotted towards homosexuals is a refusal to accept what they don't understand. Some people are terrified of whatever they don't understand, and some are terrified of change. The fact that the world is more accepting, for the most part, scares the hell out of most people, and they react in ways that are hateful, ignorant and unkind.

Answer 3

I treat all people equally. It doesn't matter if their beliefs or actions are different than mine, everyone is worthy of respect and kindness unless they do something to hurt another person. I have always found gay men to be the best of friends. They understand women and I find them easier to talk too. The people at your work are bias if they treat him badly. I think the problem is, they really don't understand and are basing their opinions on what they have been taught in their households growing up. However that is no excuse for treating someone badly. No one is perfect. When they treat this man the way they do, you should hold a mirror to them and let them take a close look at themselves.

Answer 4

Personally they are not my scene but l have a lot of gay friends (mostly male ) and they are the loveliest guys you could come across. It is very sad but true, no matter how hard gay people try to fit into society there will always be homo phobic's who will hate them and never give them a chance. I believe that there are good and bad in all of us, whether they be straight or gay !! Everyone deserves happiness !!We should not judge others by l own insecurities .

Answer 5

I seriously believe in each person's freedom...it is his personal freedom and since he is not flirting with anybody or making anybody comfortable, i don't see a problem in the situation...

I actually have some gay friends and we respect each other because each person is free to do what he or she wants...(i'm straight)

I think you should be a good friend to him...and try to make others realize that he is a human being with feelings...and that he deserves respect and good treatment no matter what he does in his personal life...

Answer 6

I have a nephew whom I love as my own child. I watched him grow up into a fine young man. He was worried about what I would think of him when he came out of the closet. When I talked to him I told him that I did not like nor approve of the gay life style but that did not alter the way I feel about him. In other words I still loved him as my nephew and would in no way reject him because of this.

Answer 7

Well I dont really have a problem with it. If thats what they want to do and how they want to be then thats them. I know thats its agaoinst my religion but I am not going to judge another individual for the choices and decision that they decided to make. That is between them and their God, not me. If someone is around me or in my family and they are openly gay, I will except them and not descriminate.

Answer 8

i don't mind same sex marriages. To me it's just normal people entering the same institution has a male-female marrige. I think it's mostly a legal thing though, but in order to get recognized as a married couple, they should be able to get the same benefits as other married couples. oh and fyi, i'm not gay because I think you're beautiful.

Answer 9

I have a homosexual cousin who is like a brother to me.... He is 18 and has been open about this for YEARS... He is a senior in high school this year.. and everyone loves him.. knowing he is gay... He was voted homecoming king by the students in his school... and he is very active in all school activities.. I realize he is very lucky to be loved so much regardless of his sexual orientation.. unfortunately not everyone has class... and you find your average ignorant JERK occasionally...

Just be a good friend to your co-worker... thats the best thing you can do... and F ther bastards who are mean to him! :)

Answer 10

I feel that eveyone on this Earth is entitled to be happy.
I do not judge others based on sexual peference. What ANYone does in their personal life is their choice.
And I also think that the US gov't needs to allow gay marriage so that all couples have equal rights.