I had sex with 2 guys which i am kinda ashamed of, but I am pregnant. I had sex with the first guy on friday without a condom then the other on sunday with a condom, I felt a bit damp down there, but we checked the condom and wasnt leaking. The ultrasound said that I got pregnant on the sunday and I am just wondering peoples opinions on this? Preferably no bitching at me, i realise i made a mistake, and dont need to b e called names.
2006-12-06 16:39:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
The mans sperm can stay alive inside for up to 3 days, so it is possible that the guy you slept with on Friday did in fact get you pregnant on Sunday. Best thing to do is tell both men that they are the potiental fathers, then after the baby is born, have a DNA test run to see which on is in fact the father. Good luck hon, and try not to stress too much, it isn't good for you or the baby! I truely wish you the best!!
2006-12-06 16:43:51 · answer #1 · answered by Crystal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ultra sound get there determination of when conception could have happen y the size of the fetus. This is not to say that they are always correct. It is more likely that you got pregnant from non condom use than from the Sunday with the condom. Pre ejaculation could have occurred before condom was put on if he entered you at anytime without one. This can result in pregnancy also. Hope this helps. Being that they are so close together, a paternity test would be my recommendation after the baby is born. Good luck!! Hope you have a good pregnancy.
2006-12-07 00:47:26 · answer #2 · answered by outahere122963 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sperm can live up to 3 days inside you. So even though you had sex w/out a condom on Friday conception could have take place on Sunday. You still need to get a paternity test when the baby is born.
2006-12-07 00:43:51 · answer #3 · answered by jagbeeton 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most likely the guy without a condom. Sweetie, I don't think you can know for sure without a DNA test. Ultrasounds are not 100% for pinning the conception date down to the exact day.
Are you going to keep the baby either way? You can get a prenatal DNA test, either by chorionic villus sampling at 11 weeks or amniocentesis at 14 weeks. IF this is not going to change your decision, wait until the baby is born.
good luck to you.
2006-12-07 00:44:44 · answer #4 · answered by Becca 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be either one, since when u had sex on the sunday the first guy's sperm was probably still alive inside u.
if the condom didnt break on the sunday, and there was no way sperm or pre-ejaculate could have gotten inside u, then Friday is probably the father.
best thing is to get a blood type test (if u know the 2 guys' blood type) or dna test done
2006-12-07 03:21:47 · answer #5 · answered by marmalade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get a DNA test before you have the baby through amniocentesis. It doesn't hurt and it's an in and out proceedure. You don't have to tell both guys right away if you don't want to. Just tell the one you think it is "Mr. Friday" and have him tested. Sounds like it's him since it can take a couple of days for sperm to reach the egg... Don't stress, it's bad for the baby. Congratulations..and look at the bright side..at least you know for sure who the mother is!! :)
2006-12-07 01:14:23 · answer #6 · answered by loveulatte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly if you used a condom with the second guy then most likely you arn't pregnant by him. And who the hell did your ultrasound because there is no way they could tell you that you got pregnant on a certain day. Its very hard to pinpoint what day you ovulated so the best thng you can do is wait until the baby is born to see who the father is. do you plan on keeping the baby and is at least one of them your boyfriend? Good Luck
2006-12-07 00:47:27 · answer #7 · answered by stony50 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The egg may have been fertilized on Sunday by the sperm left from Friday. I would say that the father is probably Friday's man.
2006-12-07 00:44:09 · answer #8 · answered by farmersdaughter 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How can the ultrasound tell when exactly you got pregnant? Just do dna testing when the baby is born. Good Luck.............
2006-12-07 00:44:03 · answer #9 · answered by plaplant8 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just wait until baby is born and have a DNA test done, just let the two guys know and have them tested. I wish you luck.
2006-12-07 00:54:22 · answer #10 · answered by msleya2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋