I say forgive is easy...forget is not. Forgiveness is for you remember that. It sets you free to move forward. You're giving yourself permission to let it go.
I just always think of the Serenity Prayer, because really that is how life works.
Remember, hanging on is toxic...so let it go!
2006-12-06 16:17:42
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answered by Anonymous
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Easiest way, look at the big picture. We only live for a short time and you have to consider that every one messes up, is it worth staying mad at this person? Let them know why you were upset, express yourself and then it will be easier to let it go, and continue the friendship... Just make sure you watch out for yourself, if you forgive and forget constantly you can be taken advantage of and stepped all over, just make sure you're not compramising yourself.
Good luck and take care!
2006-12-07 00:20:52
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answered by Tricksta-Vic 2
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Some things I can't forgive and will never forget.
2006-12-07 00:22:10
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answered by Dorkboy 7
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Forgiving can be done but to forget isnt possible it will always be with you what that person has done you have to put it behind you and move on Believe me it is hard but some ppl deserve seconds chances
2006-12-07 00:28:45
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answered by Anonymous
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Well,over the years I have learned you can forgive,but you can't forget. You have to work at it and try your best to keep it off your mind. First you have to decide if it's worth all that tho....
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2006-12-07 00:17:35
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answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7
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I can forgive much easier than forget. I know this sounds hokey, but it works and it's for you, not them. Pray for the person on a regular basis till the hurt lessens.
2006-12-07 00:18:04
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answered by Cara Beth 6
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Forgive BUT NEVER FORGET!!!
2006-12-07 00:16:26
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answered by DRNoraSarasin 3
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I can forgive, but I can never forget...
2006-12-07 00:21:10
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answered by Babygirl 3
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time will help, but it's my experience that while you can forgive, it's really hard to forget. Good luck!
2006-12-07 00:16:37
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answered by Anonymous
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First you have to believe that this is the best thing you can do for yourself. Holding a grudge or hate in your heart really stuffs YOU up. So let go and move on.
2006-12-07 00:17:20
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answered by Rex 4
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