my friend is always complaining cause of her life is so bad, she says its not the worst but it is pretty bad...she doesn't have alot of family where she lives.she does not talk to her grand parents cause they didn't call her for her birthday and where they were visiting it was expencive to call and she said so ur onley grandauther is a price just to call for 2 sec and say happy birthday her uncle seems not to like her or act like a uncle i noticed hes acting like a stanger who just says hello everyday..her mom yelles at her everyday for nothing or for stupid reasons.her parents are devorced her dad does not care and doesn't call her in a month so she can come over and spend time with him.she thinks shes very ugly and nothing is fair she hates school.and i would say myself there is alot of things wrong with her life and very f***** up, she always listens to that song runaway love by Ludacris and its sad to watch her now shes asking me if she should runaway....what should i say or do?
2006-12-06 16:02:16 · 11 answers · asked by WWE Diva~Cobra~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hey omg i know you and i know your friend girl you know how much we all love her i don't believe she wants to do this she needs to know how much people love her I'm her best friend how could i live without her in my life without seeing her everyday and smiling seeing her with so much happiness and i love her to be by my side she makes me happy even if its the worst of times.even if someone dies if i see her face i would be the happiest person in the world. shes an angel in every way she saves my life and without her i have no life. shes my heart and if a heart stops life stops so if shes gone I'm dead shes my life my heart my everything so you tell her how much i love her even though she doesn't have much people with her shell know that I'm always there watching over her much love god bless :) )o(
2006-12-07 09:43:20 · answer #1 · answered by irma 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Running away is not the answer. If your friend is being physically or sexually abused, she needs to talk to a teacher or church pastor. Otherwise, she just needs to apologize to her grandparents and her mother and move on. You are obviously around 16 or 17. It is only a matter of a couple of years until she can go out on her own, then she will probably find out that home was not that bad. My step daughter did. She is 18 now and has to work 2 jobs to pay all of her bills. She hated it here and told everyone how mean we were to her, now she realizes that we had to set limits. But don't let her run away.
2006-12-06 16:41:50 · answer #2 · answered by Jinny E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-03 11:06:51 · answer #3 · answered by cerenzia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your friend that life can only get better and remind her that if she ran away she doesnt have any money so how is she gonna eat and where is she gonna sleep. she cant go stay with friends if she runs away cause that can get her frinds in trouble for harboring a runaway. at least she has a roof over her head and food in her belly. if she still thinks her life sucks when she turns 18 she can leave and never look back and when her parents ask her why she can tell them how miserable they made her life
2006-12-06 16:08:09 · answer #4 · answered by dutchess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Last summer I went for a drive and started walking around Hollywood Blvd. I met a couple of young girls asking for money for coffee. I got to talked them and the two pretty much ran away from home. Then they started bitching about living on the streets and how hard it was just to stay clean and have a warm shower, and a clean bed to sleep without anyone trying to use their bodies. I told them to go back home.
2006-12-06 16:06:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She needs some help. You could suggest that she see a school councelor...they are GREAT for keeping things private and can end up being friends for life!! Continue being her friend, sounds like she needs some good ones. Maybe you should try talking to your parents for some advice as well, I am sure that they could assist you in this matter! Good luck to you both!! :)
2006-12-06 16:05:45 · answer #6 · answered by ilovechocolate75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her no.
its not as bad as it seems.
theres always someone better off than you.
if there is violence involed she needs to find an adult to help. but dont run away. it doesnt solve anything.
and tell her you would misss her pretty face waaaaayyyyyy too much!!
2006-12-06 16:05:29 · answer #7 · answered by .. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to tell her that you dont think running away is going to solve any thing and that she just needs to work out what ever is going on
2006-12-06 16:09:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teenager are we?
2006-12-06 16:08:42 · answer #9 · answered by who said that? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no
2006-12-06 16:04:48 · answer #10 · answered by singing_star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋