As before married we never seen each others body naked open and after marriage when I saw mark of burning line (as when she was 8 year old her hand was burn because of boiling water and as she grow up that line became thiker and larger) on her hand it’s make me unhappy and I was in deep depression. As I did her plastic surgery but still it’s not recover so I am always with unsatisfied mind but I don’t want her to give divorces because she is beautiful and kind hearted but these thing always keeping me in depressed. I took depression treatment but still its heart me. My principle is sex satisfaction is the great thing for me others not much important that was the reason it’s heart me lot and make me depressed as because of that I am not able to keep her happy and she also some time getting in depressed. As we both good looking and intelligent and but not matured ,because of this thing our life really got screw up. We are in 50/50 for thing divorce but I and she not sure solution??
2006-12-06 15:55:36 · 14 answers · asked by vinvet4u 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Are you really that shallow and stupid to get so worked up over a scar that I am sure is bothering her much more that it could really ever bother you. You are a real jerk.
2006-12-06 16:12:05 · answer #1 · answered by Andrea M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys got to "Thank God" that you are blessed with good healthy body. U know most of the parents and single gals and boys been crying that their never had an opportunity being independantly.example having hole in the heart, dump, poor eyeside, Diseases, cancer,paranoid, mental disorder many more things people are suffering however some how rather there are surviving facing the reality in a positive manner. Let's put it in this way, what happen after few years of your marriage a bad incident happen that either couples suffering in major illness, or something destroy your outer layer of your body, how are you going to justify? you going to sit and cry? please, move forward, see the world, don't just keep seeing your surroundings. This is nothing to get worried or depressed about, it is all in you how you are accepting.. if you think this burn mark is nothing obviously it is a small issue that not to worry about. Stop worrying be happy that you have a wonderful family as not many of us has it..
2006-12-07 00:16:12 · answer #2 · answered by Suppi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow. I understand that you are probably of a different culture and native language then myself, but that is no right for your ideas here. You married this woman, and you describe her as beautiful, kind hearted, and intelligent. Your idea of divorce for the reason of a scar is incredibly shallow, no matter where or how deep the scar is. Sir, every woman will have something about herself that she'll try to hide. You are fortunate to have discovered it so soon, because it's merely physical. Imagine how much worse it would have been to have married her, only to realize that she is a cruel person! Love her for that scar. When you have sex, and you feel repulsed because of it, take it to your lips and kiss it. Once you accept it as a part of your wonderful wife, she will respond with the love that you've felt is lacking. Of this, I'm almost sure.
2006-12-07 00:09:43 · answer #3 · answered by mfunk23 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If just the fact that her hands were burned you want a divorce you have serious issues besides her hands. If she is a warm loving person her hands should have nothing to do with it. I hope nothing disfigures you in the future...... Good Luck
2006-12-07 00:04:38 · answer #4 · answered by dnisey64 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to a psychiatrist. I hope you get the treatment you need to cure your mental problem. Divorcing your wife because of a small physical flaw would be a monumentally stupid thing to do.
On second though, maybe you would be doing her a favour.
2006-12-07 00:01:22 · answer #5 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you serious?? are you crazy?? you want to divorce your wife just because she's have a scar on her hand?? what did you marry her for?? for her beautiful skin?? i think you are shallow so as your wife. try to accept it as part of her body, heal her wound because you are her loving husband, if you really couldn't stand it then try to have sex with her in the dark so you wouldn't see it.
2006-12-07 00:13:40 · answer #6 · answered by FairGround 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you be married and not see a burn mark on her hand? Does she wear gloves in the house? My husband has burn marks on his neck, big deal!
2006-12-07 00:02:10 · answer #7 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are unattracted to her sexually cause she has a burn scar on her hand???? You don't deserve to be married to ANYONE. What makes you think you look so good????
2006-12-06 23:59:39 · answer #8 · answered by xovenusxo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
before you get good advice, although the words are English, it's best to re-write this whole thing because I can't understand a word of it!
2006-12-07 00:11:50 · answer #9 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
.when you married her you married her for better or worst. what happen to what's on the inside that counts. you are thinking about your self and what people will say if they see you with her. your not thinking about her or what she is going through.
2006-12-07 00:07:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋