I know I could stand to lose a few pounds, but crap. Big girls need love too.
http://www.myspace.com/judyfleapickles
2006-12-06 15:52:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
For the record, I am not always sad and depressing.....I have just been hurt a lot. A whole lot.
2006-12-06 15:56:26 · update #1
@ phonehomesock - Are you serious? Lol, get a clue. She's asking for opinions to help her. If you have something negative to say, why even bother posting? Seriously.
But other than that, you're eyes are super pretty. :] And anyone will like you if you have a nice personality. Point is, if a guy won't go out with you/like you because you're overweight... then he's not worth it.
2006-12-06 18:01:22 · answer #1 · answered by Spread love like violence. 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I'm taken. But if I weren't... well... I don't know anything about you other than you have a pretty face. Assuming everything else is average and in proportion you seem fine to me.
Find someone the way I did: hang out places where people share an interest in something you're interested in. You'll meet lots of people with whom you have at least that in common. Just let things take their natural course from there.
2006-12-07 00:00:15 · answer #2 · answered by John's Secret Identity™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question in itself suggest you obviously dont like yourself. Stop and listen. YOU are a child of God. Why are you judging yourself? God doesnt make crap. You are beautiful! Listen to what the word of God says about you. He is not a liar. It is true, there are some people who are so insecure that they choose to hurt others or lash out. But stand your ground. ALL PEOPLE have struggles and attacks by others. So my friend, start loving yourself, quit beating up on yourself. Your way more lovely than you think.
2006-12-07 00:08:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are viewing the world through a skewered lense. Why would you assume that, in order to be loved, you have to be "good enough"? What does that mean anyway? Do you think people go through a mental checklist in their head of how "good" the other person is, and if the other person qualifies, then they "decide" to love the person?
I think it may be worth it for you to take a good long think on why exactly people fall in love, and what they fall in love with.
Love is an abstract, unrestricted concept. There's no set "criteria" for what you have to do in order to get it. It's created in our minds and (arguably) our hearts. So guess what you can do in order to be loved? That's right; create it yourself. There's no rule that says others HAVE to give it to you, and there's no set procedure for GETTING it. But you have an infinite ability to CREATE it. So get to it.
2006-12-07 00:15:38 · answer #4 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Big girl - I sympathize and empathize with you. You are good enough and someone will love you.
My sister-in-law is also very overweight - but she is married to my brother (normal weight) and they are very happy together. However, I think she had one thing that you don't have. She has tremendous self-confidence.
I think you have to build your self-confidence, self-esteem, self-love. I know it's not easy - I also have this problem. I'm not sure what to tell you, but try to be good and kind to yourself. Do things to make yourself happy - enjoy your life. Maybe when you are busy doing things that you enjoy and make you happy, the right man will be there along side of you - seeing the real, beautiful you.
Good luck!
2006-12-07 09:35:42 · answer #5 · answered by happy inside 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel down about yourself - it sometimes takes a while to find the right person. Just relax and it'll happen someday. You look great, and someday someone will love you for everything you are. Remember though, that for someone to love you, you must first love yourself.
2006-12-06 23:57:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, being depressed can be a real turn-off for guys. If you have been seriously abused as a child, then please consider counseling so that any issues don't become permanent. Guys are attracted to happy girls.
2006-12-07 00:02:03 · answer #7 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no confidence in yourself. Build that and try online dating. Here's a review of some dating sites:
http://www.relationship-affairs.com/dating-sites.html
http://www.relationship-affairs.com/single-women.html
2006-12-07 01:05:26 · answer #8 · answered by Sofia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is you in the picture, you are exquisite! You just need to find a smart man!
2006-12-06 23:54:19 · answer #9 · answered by amoroushotmama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must kiss 100 frogs ...to find and value the princ....just wait.... yor moment will come...pretty soon :)
good luck.
2006-12-07 11:19:24 · answer #10 · answered by invisible1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋