2006-12-06 15:18:35 · 14 answers · asked by jojo 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Help i am totally hurt about this!!!!
2006-12-06 15:21:12 · update #1
He's addicted... You can't force him to stop. He has to do it himslef It has to come form his heart. He has to want to stop. You have to somehow convince him that his addiction is evil, stupid, and destructive. He has to be conviced of this. When he tries to quit the habit, assist him and support him as much as you can with all you have. Don't give up on him and dont let him give up on himslef either...
When there is a will, there is a way.
While there is yet life, there is yet hope.
2006-12-06 15:45:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2016-07-25 08:49:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I also feel hurt and confused when i find that my boyfriend was looking at porn. i feel like NO ONE understands my feelings about this. But i feel that if he is in a committed relationship, he should be drooling over ME, not all those naked women on the internet. When i found my boyfriends porn collection, i asked him about it. He first denied it, then he got mad at me about it. But you have to talk to him about it if it bothers you. Try suggesting that you guys make your own photos and videos instead of porn. Do fun things that turn you both on, and maybe try costumes and role playing. And tell him that you would feel a lot more comfortable with him watching that instead. (if you are comfortable with it). This is what i did when i got FED UP with it, and it seems to have helped. I hope it helps for you also. Good Luck.
2006-12-07 11:02:33 · answer #3 · answered by Stark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
generally guys use porn as an "aid" when not in a relationship, if continues during a physical relationship, he is either seriously addicted, or his "needs" are not fulfilled, mostly due to his constant porn watching, either way, he needs help, wouldn't extreme of an intervention
2006-12-06 15:52:09 · answer #4 · answered by Eric D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as the porn is not interfering with your relationship, let him have it. If it does, you may seriously want to look a more mature person.
2006-12-06 18:29:35 · answer #5 · answered by San Diego Art Nut 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over yourself! all men love porn, and as long as it's not kiddie porn, he's normal! why don't you two open a dialogue and find some porn that you two can enjoy together, you might actually like it.
2006-12-06 15:42:03 · answer #6 · answered by crimsonsky_bleedingheart 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most women are "The Bold & The Beautiful" freaks. What should us men do about that?
2006-12-06 18:09:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It';s only a problem if he is being sneaky and U are not OK with porn. Other than that, hmmmmm??
2006-12-06 16:29:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He does not get excited with you he need a booster, so he watch porn.
2006-12-06 17:57:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel about his addiction, and try to work this problem out together.
As they say, communication is the best remedy, and there must be some underlying reason as to why he does what he does.
2006-12-06 15:38:16 · answer #10 · answered by AlexMarques 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋