I understand all the stuff about you should always take risks and have a fun time because life is shotr but that doesn't help me. I keep thinking that if i am just going to grow old and die and am feeling pretty misserable at the point of life where I am than does my life really matter?
I try to have fun and all that stuff but it doesn't work i guess because i have a negatvie outlook on life. But any way my question is does my life really matter if up till this point my life has been pretty bad
2006-12-06 15:11:29 · 12 answers · asked by toby a. 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
yes it matters
2006-12-06 15:14:56 · answer #1 · answered by annjilena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life matters. It may not matter now, but what were you doing when you were 3 and what will you be doing when you're 50? Each part of your life is a small part of the entire scheme. So the question you need to ask yourself is "Does what I'm doing in life matter"? If it doesn't, you should explore your options rather than waiting for change.
2006-12-06 23:31:00 · answer #2 · answered by Rick R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is a dynamic network.
It does matter what you do with your life, because it affects a lot of other things. What is done and in the past is over. Whatever happened, good or bad, already has done its effect.
So, now in present you are faced with new choices. All any one can do is make a choice, and hope to understand their choices.
You must quest to learn why you made certain choices and when you do understand you be in the now again.
2006-12-06 23:29:29 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Toby... Sorry you feel so down. When I get feeling like you do, I visit the old folks home near here. There are so many people, good old souls, that do not have anyone concerned with their welfare... I take old clothes, and stuff I really do not need and give it to them, and it really brightens their day.... Makes you feel fortunate to be alive and mostly healthy.... Give it a try, and try to have a positive outlook for at least 16 seconds in a row daily, and the positive vibrations will seek you out... Good luck, I truly hope you feel better soon !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-06 23:34:13 · answer #4 · answered by mobileminiatures 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life matters alot. if you find your life not interesting, hei think twice! you were born for a purpose... you already determined that you have a negative outlook on life... try to look it in the different side and you'll see how life rocks! try also to look on the little changes that happens every minute of your life so that you'll see that life really matters
2006-12-06 23:18:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hey there my names kayla...i kinda know how your feeling.Everyday i ask myself that same question.I know your feeling liek ****.and u feel like life is just a wast and its not even anything to deal with?.right.well if so maybe if you change your outlook on life things wil change.Get out and meet new people and have fun.try harder if it doesnt work.yeah you wil eventually grow old and die but until then god gave you this chance to live a life and hae fun and be yourself.get out there.be you and do whatever you want.i do it and i dont care what people think.Do what u want ok....if u need me email me at hickschick05
2006-12-06 23:17:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My life matters to me because I have goals and a mission to fulfill from God.
It is all in how one views the importance of the significance of their life as to whether or not they feel it has meaning to them or anyone else.
2006-12-06 23:15:23 · answer #7 · answered by â¤??? ?å???? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in some ways life doesn't matter but everybody says life is short and blah blah blah life isn't short life is long have fun live is worth living you'll find that out eventually
2006-12-06 23:18:21 · answer #8 · answered by melinda p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my life matters a great deal to me.i have four kids and a husband that i love very much.i never want to leave them.surely there is something in your life that can make you feel that way.
2006-12-06 23:22:12 · answer #9 · answered by starr67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheer up toby. life is valuable not only because it is short, but also because of the people around you that love you. (your life is important to those people who love you.) and dont look at life with a negative perspective. go enjoy it with a favorite buddy and love the people around you.
2006-12-06 23:23:55 · answer #10 · answered by bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your life does not matter to me.
2006-12-06 23:27:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋