Mom is incapable of talking to dad w/o dictating and feels since she has custody, she calls the shots. She changes everything around through the child. She recently moved about an hr away (got remarried and had another baby) and expects us to handle all the driving, while asking for an increase in child support. I am frustrated beyond belief with the chaos and stress she brings into our lives.
2006-12-06 14:28:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Take her *** to court! She has crossed the line. She is playing GOD, Judge, and jury with the custody thing. Once it is brought to light, you will probably get custody. It may be joint but its far better than what you have.
2006-12-06 14:36:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I want to say How sorry I am that they put you in the middle. No it is not right. Some people are so worried about being one up that they don't relize how it hurts the children. I am lucky. I am divorced with three kids (I have custody) but me and there Dad always talk about the changes that are made. We don't even follow the instructions in the divorce papers concerning holidays. We split them that way both of us get to see them. Maybe if you try talking to your mom and letting her now how much stress it puts on you. I wish I could help you out more.
Good luck though.
2006-12-06 14:44:39 · answer #2 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you're ideal each thing that has been occurring in his existence is a element of this. yet in addition, he's hitting puberty, that's inflicting those variations besides. Is it obtainable for him to spend time together with his father? If no longer, stumble on a male place form (i do no longer think of a sparkling boyfriend might help lol....yet attempt an uncle). basically be useful you recognize he desires his area and ask if there is something you're able to do to repair your relationship, even besides the fact that if it quite is basically backing off for a on an identical time as. Now as for the habit subject concerns, he's 12, no longer 18, so in case you do no longer choose him associating with the different boy, do no longer enable him. See if he desires to enroll for a activity or some thing to get him in contact in some thing with a sparkling crowd. some family counseling could help besides!
2016-10-17 22:26:10 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I think it is wrong for the mother the put the child in the middle. The son is only 12 years old, I do not think it is right. I understand your frustration and I would be the way.
2006-12-06 14:38:24 · answer #4 · answered by lot2talkabt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you and your situation, she is totally wrong even allowing the son to get involved, take her back to court and ask for full custody, if she can't be responsible enough to be a parent and make her own parental decisions,she needs to be an allie to the son,Good Luck
2006-12-07 05:43:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to drag her *** back in court no she cant change a judges ruiling that is not legal on her part take this back o court and have her *** there to explain how she over rode the court system on this matter. my opion?
2006-12-06 14:50:42 · answer #6 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋