Buying an old freind a present for his birthday? We used to be the best of friends but...lately we've just gone our seperate ways and he makes no effort what so ever to talk to me, i still care about him deeply but i don't wanna waste my time doing all these things fomr him when he obviously doesn't need or think about me anymore. Idk.
2006-12-06 14:26:07 · 11 answers · asked by Seduce A Stranger :] 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well if u want to still be friends with him and if you care a lot about him i would talk to him see whats up and if you can repair the relationship ( friendwise ) you never know if hes having problems maybe he cant talk or is really busy.
2006-12-06 14:31:04 · answer #1 · answered by dramanypphcreaturething 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love how you begin the question with "Should I waste my time?"
The answer to that is no, you should never do something if it would be a waste of time.
But in this case, I don't think a present for an old friend would be a waste.
I think it might do some good, it may bring you closer like you used to be.
2006-12-06 14:42:17 · answer #2 · answered by Desiree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesn't make the effort, but you would like to continue talking, just get him a nice, cheap gift. this will show that you still care, but it will make you feel better about not wasting any money
2006-12-06 14:29:02 · answer #3 · answered by hyyperchic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd wait and let him make the next move. It seems you are the only one doing anything to hang onto this friendship and it's not fair to you. If he doesn't he's the one who's going to miss out on having you as a friend. ;o)
2006-12-06 14:30:27 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would try to find out what's going on with him. If you still care about him, then that would seem like the logical thing to do.
2006-12-06 14:56:20 · answer #5 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should still get your friend a present. i mean you guys were once good friends right? im pretty sure that he will greatly appreciate your gift and maybe you guys can even try to mend your friendship.
2006-12-06 14:28:55 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him something that lets him know that you still want to be friends. Like if you two had a joke that was just between you two then get him something to represent that. ;)
Good Luck!
2006-12-06 14:45:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's so obvious that he dosen't need or think about you then the answer to your problem should be equally obvious.
2006-12-06 14:46:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you aren't appreciated then don't go that extra mile just to be treated like dirt. besides, anser this, would he buy you a gift?
2006-12-06 15:17:32 · answer #9 · answered by SO SASSY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your money.
2006-12-06 14:32:27 · answer #10 · answered by Jess H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋