I have get this off of my chest.............. I find it very rude when people ask me when I am planning to have another child. I don't want another child but even if I did people should not ask the question because what if I couldn't have another child. People are freaking RUDE!!!!! Please accept the fact that not everyone has to have a freaking house full of kids to be happy!!!!! Thanks for letting me vent!!!
2006-12-06 14:11:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I totally agree - it is just like when you get married and the first thing people ask is when are you having children? I mean give it a rest and mind your own business. The best thing to say is when we decide we will be sure to send out a news broadcast letting everyone know we are trying and not to interrupt us! LOL
2006-12-06 14:19:22 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear that from married women alot. A friend of mine, who wasn't planning on having kids until after she finished grad school and got a good job, was being pressured, pressured, pressured to have kids while still in school, simply because she was married!
Hell, my fiance's mom is already planning the number of children (apparently all girls) I'm going to have...
I think it's rude too! What you do is up to you!
2006-12-06 14:15:03 · answer #2 · answered by Esma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No problem, people are rude and most of the time don't even know they are, if when asked you can always say you can not for medical reasons. Or flat out say one is enough.
2006-12-06 14:16:10 · answer #3 · answered by picture 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are either truely a friend and curious. In which case answer politely. Or they are nosy busy bodies in which case tell them as soon as George Bush the third is president.
2006-12-06 14:15:30 · answer #4 · answered by KarenJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they are just anxious for you to be a new parent all over again, but I say if they're so rude they can't get the hint after the first couple of times I would just tell them point blank:hey! it's MY buisness DROP IT!!
2006-12-06 14:16:46 · answer #5 · answered by Keli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOW all you have to do is tell THEM that!!! It is NONE of their damn business to begin with and I think what you should do is ask them "WHY" when they ask you that. I have no idea why they do it. Trying to make conversation. Nothing better to say. I really cannot tell you because I don't know what they are thinking(thank goodness) because I can't slow my brain down THAT far.
2006-12-06 14:15:28 · answer #6 · answered by Batracer04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your human beings and family that your plate is quite plenty finished ideal now with a newborn and a ill husband, and which you're afraid you may bypass into exertions the comparable time a kidney could be accessible to him. which could lead them to end and understand what your loved ones is going by.
2016-10-17 22:25:31 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope you feel better now after taking this load of. any away i do agree with i am 25 and everyone keep asking me when am i going to get married. first it is none of their fkn business and second i the can kiss my ***
2006-12-06 14:17:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i just had a son he is 5 months and people ask me the same question. they need to get a life!!
2006-12-06 14:18:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you got if off your chest... happy now?
2006-12-06 14:20:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋