this 7th grader keeps asking me out only becuz i danced with him once at the dance in skool....im an 8th grader and like 1foot and 6 inches taller than him i already told him no but his friend keep coming up to me asking me again and now he bought me a ticket to the next dance plus he gave me some ugly a$$ hat i think becuz i wore a hat to the last dance i think he wants me to wear his hat to the next one on friday wat shud i do??????
2006-12-06 13:57:39 · 7 answers · asked by i fly high no lie u know this... 1 in Games & Recreation ➔ Other - Games & Recreation
options:
1) Give him a black eye
2) Don't reject him so nicely
3) pretend to have a bf
4) tell him he's too young
5) tell his parents that he's obsessed
6) File sexual harrasment
7) Just don't go to the dance with him
8) just keep saying no to everything he asks you to and/or gives you
9) reject him in front of alot of ppl
10) numbers 1-9 :P
PS: If the word goes around that you kept on rejecting him, you can't be put down for anything...if ur like twice his size and 1 grade up, then no one can put you down.
2006-12-06 14:02:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...remember he's 12...so be nice to him. Some kids will do this, be nice, don't hurt his feelings too much. Talk to him and explain you only want to be friends with him. If he persists then walk away and ignore him. Don't return the hat because it will hurt his feelings more. Just remember to be respectful of his feelings.
Also add in that your parents don't want you to start dating until you are 16, and you agree with them and don't want to date until then. Then he'll understand and when you turn 16, he'll have long gotten over you.
2006-12-07 00:45:33 · answer #2 · answered by Yokihana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him back the hat. tell him that u just wants to be friends with him and that if he keeps on asking you, you won't be friends with him at all. tell him that he's not the right guy for you and that your not the right girl for him. tell him that dating someone in another grade is hard because what about next year? when you go to hs?
soo just turn him down straight but don't be mean about it.
2006-12-06 14:04:08 · answer #3 · answered by xxazaleanne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offence, but why pay atention to the 7th grader? Just ignore him... he'll learn later ( return the hat IMO )
2006-12-06 14:01:04 · answer #4 · answered by Justin H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey hun, i've been through what you've gone through as well. Its pretty annoying. All I did was go straight up to his face and say it loud and clear. If he interrupts, get harsh with him, you have to get the point into his head. if that doesn't work, you could always give him a clap on the cheek.
2006-12-06 14:05:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write him a note, his head will explode trying to decode your spelling skills.
2006-12-06 14:00:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask him for 3 hats, one to $#%& on one to wipe and one to cover it up
2006-12-06 14:00:38 · answer #7 · answered by Trevor159 I 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋