Try dated older men at least 5 years older.
People under your own age tend to still act like children and don't know what they want.
2006-12-06 13:50:56
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answered by Aries 2
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Gemini & Scorpio
When Gemini and Scorpio come together in a love affair, they'll need to learn to understand and accept one another's differences -- and if they can, they will be a nearly unbreakable couple. Where Gemini is adaptable, intellectual, outgoing and chatty, Scorpio tends to be secretive, focused, intense and determined. Gemini tends to take things lightly, including their lover; Scorpio, on the other hand, has a very deep need for emotional connection and intimacy. Scorpio is generally very loyal to their lover and very connected to the relationship.
This relationship tends to be highly passionate and can often be characterized by arguments; Gemini loves a good debate, considering it the epitome of mental stimulation, and that characteristic Gemini flirtatiousness tends to grate on Scorpio's jealous, possessive nerves. Despite these differences, however, this is no dull relationship. Both Signs love to take chances and spice it up! They have lots of adventures together, but if things get too tense and arguments start to turn negative, they must make the effort to reconcile if they value the relationship and want it to last.
Gemini is ruled by the Planet Mercury (Communication) and Scorpio is dually ruled by the Planets Mars (Passion) and Pluto (Power). Scorpio is generally quite concerned with sexual and emotional intimacy; they need much reassurance that their lover values the relationship as much as they do. Thank goodness, then, for Gemini's excellent communicative abilities; the Twins should have no trouble communicating their dedication to the Scorpion -- if it's dedication they feel. Gemini can't and won't fake a commitment they don't feel, so intense Scorpio must learn to back off a bit. Gemini will certainly make a commitment to a love relationship, but only if they're free to do so on their own, not coerced into it.
Gemini is an Air Sign and Scorpio is a Water Sign. These two elements can be a great combination; after all, the best decisions are made when they incorporate the intellect (Air) and the emotions (Water) -- the mind and the heart. The trick, of course, is getting these two elements to work in tandem. Scorpio is a master strategist; if there's a decision to be made or a project at hand, they can help flighty Gemini focus on the best options. Gemini, in turn, teaches Scorpio to let go and move on when their efforts are thwarted. There is a downside to these two elements' union, however; Scorpio's emotional manipulations can prove to dampen Gemini's natural energy and enthusiasm. Also, airy Gemini can leave Scorpio's deep waters feeling choppy, rough and disturbed.
Gemini is a Mutable Sign and Scorpio is a Fixed Sign. Gemini tends to do things on a whim, just for the experience, contrary to Scorpio, who almost always has a plan (or an ulterior motive) in mind. Scorpio can use their focus and determination to help teach Gemini the value in finishing things before jumping headlong into the next experience. Once these two begin to understand that they can enjoy a satisfying relationship -- Gemini providing the reasoning and brain power and Scorpio bringing their healthy dollop of sex appeal, emotionalism and passion -- they can enjoy a truly mutually satisfying relationship.
What's the best aspect of the Gemini-Scorpio relationship? The strength they have when they function as a unit. They are both winners who refuse to give up, making theirs a relationship that never settles for second best.
good luck
2006-12-07 01:27:55
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answered by mlhbak2006 2
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When Gemini and Scorpio learn to glory in each other's differences, they can create a force to be reckoned with. Scorpio is more focused and more determined than Gemini, while Gemini is easily adaptable and more outgoing than Scorpio. Scorpions have an intense loyalty to their partner while Gemini is more relaxed about life in general. Each partner has different ultimate goals, but if they work together they can achieve anything.
This can be a very goal-oriented relationship. It tends to be highly passionate and often argumentative, because Scorpio has a jealous nature and Gemini can come across as uncaring who also likes to debate just for the fun of it. Scorpio tends to be more patient, but is also more possessive than Gemini. But despite their differences, both partners love risk and taking chances; this is not a boring relationship! Gemini and Scorpio can have lots of adventures together. At times they can have difficulty understanding each other, because Gemini is an extrovert, up front and open, while Scorpio is more mysterious. Both partners need to sit down at the bargaining table every once in a while and work out a peace treaty!
Gemini is ruled by the Planet Mercury and Scorpio is dually ruled by the Planets Mars and Pluto. Gemini's excellent communicative abilities balance the strife that can arise from the smoldering, sometimes emotionally inaccessible Scorpio. Mars also represents passion, so Scorpio's energy fuels an active and exciting time together. Both enjoy challenge, so heated debate will not scare off either one -- making up is twice as hot! Pluto adds an extra intensity to this dynamic.
Gemini is an Air Sign and Scorpio is a Water Sign. These two elements can be a great combination if they work together, using emotion and intellect to get things done. Scorpio is a strategist, and can help Gemini slow down and learn how to plan battles before jumping into them. Gemini teaches Scorpio to let go and move on when their efforts are thwarted. But Scorpio can be emotionally manipulative, too much Water dampening Gemini's enthusiasm. Conversely, too much Air can stir up the Water and create rough sailing for the relationship. Gemini and Scorpio must plan and work together instead of separately to maintain their balance.
Gemini is a Mutable Sign and Scorpio is a Fixed Sign. Gemini allows Scorpio the space to do things just for the experience, rather than always having an agenda in mind. Scorpio can lead Gemini toward stabilizing and finishing things rather than jumping into new projects without completing the old ones. Both are attached and devoted to each other, and when they can understand that they can enjoy a satisfying relationship -- Gemini providing the reasoning and brain power and Scorpio as the passionate, emotional leader -- they can accomplish a great deal together.
The best aspect of the Gemini-Scorpio relationship is the strength they have when they function as a unit. They can champion any cause they choose, and obtain any goal. They are both winners, and they won't give up, making theirs a relationship that never settles for second best.
2006-12-06 21:56:08
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answer #3
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answered by Anonymous
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nope,
you are a dreaming social butterfly and he is a hardass
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money freak.
I am a gemini too I have never met anybody born in November even close to understanding my charm or my need to socialize. try February!! They like to save money but are understanding when you need to spend it.They will move heaven on earth to see your "needs" are met.
However have fun tonight Your "hardass" will love impressing you!! and you get to yak all you want!!
2006-12-06 21:55:45
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answered by to tell ya the truth........... 6
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it can take off like a whirl wind amazing everyone around you both, but beware it can end by the same wild manner and just as quick as it all began.
2006-12-07 00:48:01
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answer #5
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answered by bentomsun 3
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Do birthdays and age really matter? Just go out and see if he's good for you
2006-12-06 21:46:46
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answer #6
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answered by J 3
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i was born june 16 1957. i feel that you should be careful. very.
2006-12-07 01:14:20
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answer #7
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answered by buck74_99 2
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Here is a cool website:
http://www.paulsadowski.com/birthday.asp
2006-12-06 21:56:05
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answer #8
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answered by upsadaisy22 2
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no...you are too much of a free spirit he's a little too controlling and possessive
2006-12-06 23:29:35
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answer #9
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answered by Scorpio11 2
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What is a "match"?
If your parts "fit" THEN i SUPPOSE YOU ARE A MATCH.
2006-12-06 21:49:01
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answer #10
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answered by Two dimes and a Nickel 5
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