The man is nuts. We separated in 2000; divorced in 2004. I have not dated since him ...before we were married. He used foul language and told me to keep our 9 year old away from him and was nasty and rude and biligerent.
I gave him 7 years to fix himself.....alcoholic, narcissist, drug abuser, full of rage/hate/anger, mental problems (anxiety) which he takes medication for, lives with mother, in his 40s, can't keep a job, runs with low life trash, has no vehicle and no money.
He has not changed. I am moving on. The man I have been on 2 dates with I dated back in the early 90s. We met at work. I have told myself over the years "I should've married him instead'.
How do I deal with this psycopathic lunatic? I fear he is going to get even meaner now.
HE IS EVIL!
2006-12-06 13:44:20 · 6 answers · asked by Titanic112406 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
tell him to **** off and ask him why he cares
2006-12-06 13:48:22 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it serious!!
Just how far will he go!! It has been years and he cant move on? That is scary. But so is living with MOM at that age.
I would get legal help or move where he cant find you. Just don't want all of those problems to break the camels back and turn fatal for you or your child.
I wish you the best of luck.
2006-12-06 14:05:31 · answer #2 · answered by scott in minnesota 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is best you not tell your ex any details about your life.
If he threatens you, or stalks you in any way, get a restraining order.
Keep him out of your life as much as possible. If he does threaten or harm you in any way, take measures to have his visitation taken away.
If he isn't visiting your child, (sounds like he doesn't want to and shouldn't be allowed to), you should have no involvement with him at all.
Be careful, sounds like anything is possible.
Good luck to you, your child, and your new relationship.
2006-12-06 13:59:32 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a therapist and get his card! Give it to your EX and say merry christmas!
2006-12-06 14:01:28 · answer #4 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My God...! you need to get away from him. I know this kinda ppl and I am stuck with one. I cant get away so I play his game. Internally (my heart) is screaming to get away!!!
2006-12-06 13:48:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHO CARES WHAT HE THINKS ! move on and be happy .Forget him ! It's his loss !
2006-12-06 14:27:43 · answer #6 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋