2006-12-06 13:39:48 · 32 answers · asked by AZEE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
cos men are pigs and use the excuse that its a man thing to cover for all the crappy things they do....doesnt wash with me
2006-12-06 13:42:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably because you're human? Well, if you're mind is wandering it's because you're human. You could be totally in love with her, but it's possible that your eyes and mind will wander from time to time. What's important is that your hands and 'other' doesn't wander along with it. (If you follow.) "feeling like cheating" though? That's low. Don't do it. I mean I know hearing that from a complete stranger doesn't make much of an impact, but you're her rock as she is yours. When all else fails you two should be there for one another and not out banging some girl that you know is absolutely nothing to you except a cheap thrill. If you love her then keep these naughty thoughts as thoughts or if you feel the need to cheat or anything like that, then simply say you want a divorce. Then you can go out and have sex with all the women you want.
2006-12-06 13:43:26 · answer #2 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
man, don't do it. A little over two yrs ago, i did. My family is not together anymore. Now my ex is a total butt, and my kids get the blunt end, and when you mess up, and break up, everyone looses. life as you have known it is over, (i know you have to learn on your own, but if i could let you feel how i feel inside, you would say a little prayer,(maybe psalm 23-he leadeth me not into temptation, deliver me from evil) Every thing good comes from above, i guess my best explaination is SIN.
You know how beautiful companies make alcohol look on billboards-city lights, beautiful women etc...That is what the ole' devil is trying to paint you-a beautiful billboard, the only problem...
hes not showing you the other side of it.
you'll be in my prayers. hang in there.
2006-12-06 13:49:15 · answer #3 · answered by Alicia S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There must be something missing in your marriage. I mean it is normal and healthy to fantasize(even about other people) but to actually cheat is a different story. Maybe there is an emotional thing lacking, or the romance and spark has fizzled. Try talking with her about this and see what she says. I would also suggest some marriage councelling. You owe it to your marriage to try and fix this problem. Good luck!
2006-12-06 13:43:11 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think every one has those feelings every once in a while. I believe it's just human nature. I think you are just 'exploring' the thought of being unfaithful. Sometimes you have to fight urges and think about the consequences; like losing your family. I think you should talk to your spouse about these feelings you're having and how the two of you can work on resolving what may be lacking in your relationship.
2006-12-06 14:34:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having been married for 11 yrs you can run into ruts now and again. That's why it's great to have a friendship with them because the passion in a marriage comes and goes. There are things you can doo to spice things up if you want. Lots of great books out there and such.
2006-12-06 13:43:33 · answer #6 · answered by heartache 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Okay buddy the dreaming thing well that is a bit out of your control but the feweling like cheating thing you better find the problem in your marrriage and fix it or get out no excuses for cheating.
2006-12-06 13:42:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
it's natural, but...this is happen because u always meet ur wife! when u wake up and when u get sleep, she always with u! but...try if u stay away from her a couple days...u feel lonely and half part in urself are not with u! sometimes we don't know how important this people for us until they gone!...be wise okay! enjoy the moment!
2006-12-06 13:48:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because humans aren't programed to be monogomous. As modern as we like to think we are, we still have that bestial gene in us that makes us want to fornicate with as many partners as we can. Then it was a matter of survival. The more you copulte, the more offspring will be added to the tribe to help out with survival issues later. We aren't as modern, and as sophisticated as we think. We're all cavemen inside.
2006-12-06 13:45:04 · answer #9 · answered by matthew k 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there was a movie way back that this good looking guy had this pretty and very nice girl(engaged) but then he gets crazy when a woman passes and his problem was that he lets his (man organ)control his brain. you see, whatever you feel is due to the reaction of your brain to your senses. so if you don't control your urges you could end up in a lot of ****.
2006-12-06 13:45:40 · answer #10 · answered by emmaj9 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's because you are not getting enough affection in your 'waking' life so in your 'sleeping life' your subconscious fills that need by giving you affection. don't cheat, no matter what happens in your dreams. just spend more time with your wife and the dreams will stop.
2006-12-06 13:42:05 · answer #11 · answered by LetMeKnow! 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋