i still want her in my life
2006-12-06 13:34:13 · 11 answers · asked by paultoledo2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
u must fk her like she has never been fk'd b4 - that is al u can do - and if the stick aint thick then u must lick - yeah e yeah
2006-12-06 13:38:43 · answer #1 · answered by Jazz 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Trust me, I understand where you are coming from completely.
However, if you do bend over backwards to make her happy, will you ever be able to forgive her for hurting you as bad as she has?
The even bigger question that you must answer is: Do you want the girl she is now back in your life or the girl that you fell in love with? Are you in love with who she is now or the girl you met and fell in love with? Finally, would the girl that you married cause you all this pain? Is your wife still that girl or has she become someone else?
I wish you the best!
Stay up Playa!
Holla!
2006-12-06 13:51:29 · answer #2 · answered by Cing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is she knows you will always be there. You probably give her everything and expect nothing. Girls no matter what age want to feel like their man has a mind of his own and is a bit of a challenge. I hate to say date other people. But i think you dating someone else while she has left you would send her a very distinct message that she is not the only person you can hav and would also make you feel better about yourself and see there are other people out there who can give you what you need and want. Seriously, If I were you I would take care of myself first, learn how to demand what you want and take it. She will more than likely see this and want you back. .. I know us women make no sense.
2006-12-06 13:42:31 · answer #3 · answered by kareiche 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You teach people how to treat you. If you behave like her doormat, she will treat you as her doormat. There is no way you can make her happy. Find some dignity and tell her that the next time she leaves will be the last. And be sincere. She may or may not come around, but at least you can sleep well knowing that you don't let her take advantage of you anymore.
2006-12-06 13:41:52 · answer #4 · answered by JillA 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like your a really nice guy.Your wife obviously no's she can keep leaving you and you will take her back. You need to lay it all out on the table, tell her how much it hurts you to see her leave al the time. You could try marriage councilling?? Find out why she leaves? there must be a reason for her leaving... And if it doesnt work out Remember- There will be other people that will love you, life is too short to be miserable.
2006-12-06 13:41:29 · answer #5 · answered by Mandy :) 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My first wife became bi-polar. She would come and go. Get angry for no reason. We got divorced and i thought i could never find anyone again. Well i found love again. Better things are out there.
2006-12-06 13:39:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If she keeps leaving she does NOT want you. Seriously you need to face that fact, show some selfrespect and move on!
2006-12-06 13:37:58 · answer #7 · answered by . 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
get yourself a shrink to help you build up your self esteem you deserve much better and it is ashamed you are willing to settle.
2006-12-06 13:51:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need some therapy my friend the woman cannot be trusted its time to let go and move on
2006-12-06 13:36:26 · answer #9 · answered by can u ♥ moi? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave her and marry me ! I'll make you happy !
2006-12-06 13:36:27 · answer #10 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋