2006-12-06 13:29:57 · 6 answers · asked by Raines 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he leaves her, will he really leave me too?? How can one be so sure of that?? What is the likelihood that he would leave me too if he leaves her??
2006-12-06 13:37:32 · update #1
What if the guy only met this other girl AFTER he got engaged and is more interested in this girl than his fiancee?? Would that still be not loyal to his fiancee?
2006-12-06 13:39:28 · update #2
He wasn't actively looking, he just happen to meet this other person at work because he has interviewed this person for a job and offered a position to her.
2006-12-06 13:48:40 · update #3
Also, he only knew this girl for a short time, and probably a shorter period that his fiancee. Could he be more interested in her than his fiancee?
2006-12-06 13:55:08 · update #4
It could possibly happen, for a number of reasons. The guy may not be totally committed to his fiancee, he may regret becoming engaged. Or the other person could be imagining it, or it could be wishful thinking on the other person's part. Either way, nothing good can come of it. If you are the other person, run away now! There is no chance of him leaving her for you and living happily ever after. If he leaves her, he will leave you too.
2006-12-06 13:35:04 · answer #1 · answered by JillA 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well he can. A guy can show intereste in another person even if he's married. Does that make it okay? NO! Likely what will happen is you'll break the engagement or end your marriage because of it. Truth is if you are engaged and finding that you are attracted to another person maybe you should ask yourself if you are really ready to settle down to just one person? Sometimes we just get cold feet but other times we just aren't ready for that big of a commitment. Decide what you really want before you lead anyone on or down the aisle. If you're not ready for marriage it's going to hurt your fiance to find out but he/she will be better off knowing beforehand than having to end the marriage due to an affair.
2006-12-06 14:03:59 · answer #2 · answered by copper_eos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No a guy cannot be engaged and still be interested in another person. That not right. It will be like they are leading the girl on that he wants to be with her in a way but at the same time he want to be with another person. Eventually what will happen is that the relationship will fall apart because he don't have his attention on his fiancee but instead have it on any other girls besides her.
2006-12-06 13:36:52 · answer #3 · answered by Ask Ashlynn!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well this is my opinion,if you don't like it well don't take it......any guy that is engaged to should not look over the fence,because if there engaged that's a promise that he tell some one that he love.whats going to happen when he will be married he will maybe get in a fight with you for just a little thing and then he will be on happy and look for another one.that's how i take it.why should he be interested in another person,if he his engaged with you.before you get married with him well go and see a counsellor with him to,that would be good for both of you.if the engaged crack up,well you will thank Jesus for it because there wont be another divorce in this world.so check it out first,then you will not have to suffer for it later.and have a good conversation with him.that's good for any one.ore go to your church and ask a priest that you want a counsellor be cuss's you want to make sour what your doing,you font want him for a night but for ever.
2006-12-06 14:11:48 · answer #4 · answered by cilia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He shouldn't be showing interest in any woman except his fiance.
If he wants to explore options with other women, he shouldn't be engaged-- he's definitely not ready for commitment to that person.
It's normal and common to get cold feet, but not to actively seek out someone else. Showing interest can only lead to cheating, or complicated feelings and distrust.
2006-12-06 13:37:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 04:30:21 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋