How do I get rid of a friend I have known for 10+ yrs. Its getting to the point where I cannot ****** stand her. She gets on my nerves. We live in different states but we talk almost every day her calling me mostly. She is very immature and we are almost 30!!! She does ans says the same things that we did when we were in high school and I have it but I dont want to be evil b/c I do care about her but I have really outgrown this friendship, our lives are in different places. Oh and I should mention that she is very self centered! All she talks about is herself all the time, even when we talk about something else she makes the conversation about her. I am not an outspoken person and I internalize my fustrations and blow up and I don't want to that.
2006-12-06 13:23:51 · 7 answers · asked by *sexy mocha* 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
easy. you don't have to have any kind of major dialogue for closure, that could get nasty (unless you welcome that kind of negativity and drama)...you want to end the friendship for good, its time for you to fade...just stop all communications with her and refuse to answer any of hers...move on...in time, she will get the hint and move on too...
2006-12-06 13:32:04 · answer #1 · answered by kewtber 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This one is easy!! Don't pick up the phone. If by chance you do, be honest, tell her you simply don't think you two have much new stuff in common and high school is over.Life goes on and you are in a new chapter in your life and don't want her in it. End of story.
2006-12-06 21:41:11 · answer #2 · answered by davidswoman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
man, i just went through the same ****.the best thing i can tell you is to just be straight up.tell them you are going through something in your life right now,and you just dont need any outside influences to interfere with your decisions.tell her you need some time to yourself to work it out.
2006-12-06 21:32:33 · answer #3 · answered by urbanetric 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first wat u have to do is tell her evrything u just said and maybe she will change maybe i said and well if u really tired of her just say u dont want to be friends wit her or just dont answer the phone or u can make her really angry and argue and it will just end probably
there are alot of ways to not be somebodys friend
2006-12-06 21:34:12 · answer #4 · answered by BoReD 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her how you really feel. I understand you don't want to hurt her feelings, but it would hurt more if she found out on her own.
2006-12-06 21:37:29 · answer #5 · answered by Bison0809 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her.Tell her that she is an immature piece of you know what
2006-12-06 21:27:26 · answer #6 · answered by Mr Bellows 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you need some space
2006-12-06 22:34:51 · answer #7 · answered by Melissa L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋