2006-12-06 13:02:38 · 15 answers · asked by make_me_sweat_692002 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i checkout girls alot but sometimes wish i was born 100% gay
2006-12-06 13:06:53 · update #1
It's just something you kind of realize... you can think of many more ______ that you'd like to date/ have sex with/ etc than _______. For me, it's girls. I just can tell that I check out girls more than guys, and that's just the way it is. It can change over time, though, too, so maybe that's why you might be confused.
Anyway, don't overthink it, okay? It doesn't really matter, does it? You'll find people that you want to date, and you'll go for it... they may be men, or they may be women, but either way, you'll know that you like the particular person, and that's what matters.
2006-12-06 13:12:42 · answer #1 · answered by jenjubatus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally know where you are coming from. I had always been attracted to girls and then a couple summers back, I met a guy who stole my heart. I've realized that I have started looking at people and not their gender, creed, etc. I wondered this exact question, "Which one do I like more?" I made a list of pros and cons. Suprisingly they came up almost even (55-45). Try sitting down and charting out the advantages to dating a man and dating a woman and the comfortability and pleasurability in either.
2006-12-06 21:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by Maximus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just know after a few years. It is a myth that every bi person is attracted to each sex equally. Some are, but most aren't. My guess is that most bi men at probably somewhere in the 40:60 or 60:40 range. There are others though who are at the far ends of the continuum.
One way to determine your overall preference is to ask yourself: Which sex do I think about most in my sexual fantasies?
2006-12-07 02:34:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually if you are bisexual, you know who you like more, or if you like them both equally. It has to do with who you think about more often, who's in your fantasies, who you find yourself looking at when they walk by, and so on.
I don't think a lot of people can accurately say "I'm sixty-three percent gay and the rest straight" or something like that- they just sort of know that if they had their choice, they'd pick him over her, or her over him. And if they can't, then they're probably about equal in the person's mind.
It's not difficult to understand- think about it in terms of a straight or gay relationship- some people totally love blondes, some are solely for brunettes, and some like blondes more than brunettes, but could have either, you know? It's similar.
2006-12-06 22:22:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see beyond the gender to the person, the individual inside. That's what I'm attracted to. The genitalia is just something I work with.
2006-12-07 01:53:20 · answer #5 · answered by DEATH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm bisexual and in my experience I'm attracted to a person because of whats in there heart and soul and mind - not whats btw there legs that kind of seems irrelevant to me. If I like someone there appearance doesn't (to an extent) effect my attraction, i dont mind if they are black or white or girl or boy - my hang up is though I don't like to date a guy that's shorter then me!
2006-12-06 21:17:01 · answer #6 · answered by antibim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason to a relationship lies in your feelings towards your partner. Gender plays an almost minute role in this. So, if you're comfortable with this person ( be it guy or gal ), then I say, take it on.
2006-12-07 00:01:14 · answer #7 · answered by AlexMarques 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell difference does it make. Go with what ya got in front of you, the person your considering..Bi-sexuals don't even worry about that stuff. Relax buddy...If ya want to be 100% gay, do it for awhile...If ya want to be straight for awhile----go for it...See that's the wonderful fantastic beauty of being bi-----we are comfortable in our own skin at any moment with any fellow human being regardless of their physical form....It's a very enlightened way of living for me......Wishing you Freedom and Love! lil' Kevin
2006-12-06 21:49:57 · answer #8 · answered by sckreet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't really matter. All that matters is if a particular person you are looking at is attractive to you. Stop focusing on what gender they are, as you've already determined you like both genders.
2006-12-09 21:58:29 · answer #9 · answered by Miakoda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose it would be confusing if one were equally attracted to both gender. Is usually a matter of which one turns ya on more sexually. Ya just know.
2006-12-08 14:27:55 · answer #10 · answered by rick891us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋