is it right if i still continue our relationship.instead he's not married
2006-12-06 12:52:22 · 9 answers · asked by pingkat c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you think it's right then it's right.My boyfriend has 3 kids.We have been together for 4 years now.If you like his kids and they like you and you love him and he loves you then go for it!!!
2006-12-06 12:58:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It'a a matter of choice, if you are... willing to take more responsibilities, then go ahead. Because often times, people in love misses out an important fact in life that love is sweetest in the first few years of a relationship and though how committed you are in a relationship, emotions tend to outweigh love. So what happens, love fades in the latter years and gives you the feeling of discontment and remorse. Then one day you"ll gonna ask yourself shouln't I marry a single man without kids. More kids means more patience, more parental supervision, more financial responsitbility and means more demanding time to spend with them. Better think wisely and carefully . Look before you leap.
2006-12-06 21:04:59 · answer #2 · answered by dtmc542006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have dated people in the past who have had children, and it has never been a problem. The relationship that you have is the only thing that matters because if you love him, you will love his children, as they are a part of him. However, in saying this, if you decide to continue a relationship with him, it is important for you to build a relationship with his children slowly and gradually over time. Hope this helps
2006-12-06 23:21:03 · answer #3 · answered by kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think it over then think it out twice, remember he will always be their father, when they need him he has to be there.
You can stay in this relationship as long as you know your boundaries / limits. If you get to marriage- never tell the kids to call you mom, let that be something that comes out naturally if they want. Taking baby steps in this situation is the best you can do.
Luck to you my friend.
2006-12-06 21:00:02 · answer #4 · answered by Taz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not in a relationship with any one I don't see why it would be a problem for the two of you to continue your relationship.
2006-12-06 21:00:08 · answer #5 · answered by UnknownJaneDoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember he has to be a dad first. I think its best to wait until the kids grow up. The children need their DAD and no competition with a girlfriend.
2006-12-06 21:02:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you can decide if you want to continue your relationship ,just know that there, may come a times when you may have to deal with the kids momma drama.
2006-12-06 21:10:45 · answer #7 · answered by ladybug 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can tell you what you should do. You have to go with your gut feelings
2006-12-06 20:55:51 · answer #8 · answered by rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what ? i dont really understand what u are asking
2006-12-06 20:59:34 · answer #9 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋