I'm a girl and at the age of 12 years old i started to check out girls.Not only in the way the looked or the way they were dressesd but like a guy would check out a girl.I started to get atracted to girls.But i like guys i know i do.I don't know what i should do.My life is so confuseing.Please tell me what i should do.Right now 2006 i'm 14 years since 12 i've felt the same way.PLease help me OUT!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-06 12:50:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
The only person who can answer this question is you, sorry but asking on the internet wont help you find out. Only you can.
2006-12-06 12:52:22 · answer #1 · answered by triplethreat 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest you not make any firm decisions at the age of 14, your sexually might not be clearly defined yet. People change as they get older. Keep your options open, and keep open minded about the choices you have to make. I would stay away from any relationship commitments until you are sure of your status. In the meantime, you have the whole human race to check out and experiment with. Try and think of this as an opportunity and not a responsibility yet, you will have many years ahead of you for that.
2006-12-06 20:55:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all breathe. It is all okay. :) At 14 you are still figuring yourself out. And you don't have to have all the answers right now.
If you feel comfortable labeling yourself as bi then do so. Maybe that will change, maybe it won't. maybe you could find a youth/teen support group in your area for gay/les/bi and transgendered folks. Or talk to your counselor.
Just give yourself time and space to explore and enjoy your young years... safely (SAFe SEX always and abstinence is a great thing LoL). Read what you can and talk to folks who are in the same position as you.
There is nothing wrong with being bi, lesbian or straight. As long as you are a good person who does good things and you are true to you, it's all good.
take good care okay? Wishing you all the best. :)
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2006-12-06 20:58:20 · answer #3 · answered by Sugah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey, don't stress too much about it, it is not the end of the world. there is nothing wrong with you. so you like girls. you should find and adult, maybe a guidance councelor who you can confide in, talk to the person and sort out your feelings very well. date them both if you have to. you get the best of both worlds. just be safe. Remember that you are still young there is so much of the world left for you to explore. straight, bi or what, it doesn't ultimately define who we are, what makes you, so beautiful is the heart you have and the intergrity you posses. always remember to stay true to yourself. and never compromise to make anyone happy.
2006-12-06 21:01:30 · answer #4 · answered by Miss_P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're young,and hormones are raging. You don't even know who you are yet. Wait until you're about 18-20, and then figure out what your decision is. Ask yourself who you see yourself with in 5, 10, 15 years....a man or a woman.
2006-12-06 20:55:27 · answer #5 · answered by Mona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i need 2 no what problems you are having
you can email me and ill help u out
sexy_princess923@yahoo.com
2006-12-06 21:01:52 · answer #6 · answered by lesbiangirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you very well might be bi, and that's ok...be yourself...be comfortable in your own self...but don't necessarily broadcast it either...some folk are not so understanding...y'know?
2006-12-06 20:54:54 · answer #7 · answered by evemarkra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
arent u jealous that they have more booty than u!!??=/
and have u ever see a girl with a abercrombie sweater and get very jealous that u juss want to kick her *** and jack it from her??lmao=]]
i never did that but these gangsta gurls have!!
OMG UR PROBABLY TURNING GANGSTA!!=]]
holla!!lol=]
2006-12-06 20:56:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
idk. maybe its just curiosity.
2006-12-06 20:55:42 · answer #9 · answered by HANNAH S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋