I have known this has been coming for years, and they are better off apart.
2006-12-06 12:47:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Age has nothing to do with your feelings that your family is no more. Even if they say we both are here for you, it still is not the same. My parents divorced when I was in my 30's, and I still think that they ruined my "normal" family life. In todays society, Divorce is the norm, not the exception unfortunately. It is too easy to leave a relationship, or for that matter , to get into a marriage to someone you havent even known for very long. All I can tell you is that the feeling does not go away, it lessons up, but you will still fill like they let you down. Good luck, and remember these two things, one is that you will not get married to someone without a long engagement so you can be truly sure it will last. And two, that even though you feel bad, it is their life, even if they screwed up yours by not working on theirs.
2006-12-06 13:00:19 · answer #1 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the first thing you should do is figure out "what" is bothering you. If they are better off apart then what's the problem? What is eating you up inside? You have to remember that at one point they were "in-love" and that sadly it went away. It's really isn't anyone's fault. Love comes and goes. I'm sure you have been in a relationship that hasn't lasted and you probably still think about "why" "why" "why", life is too short to try to figure out things like that. Everyone deserves to be happy, so let your parents. They will always be a part of you and can never be replaced. Enjoy your life while you can. The only person you can control is yourself. No one can make you happy or sad, that's a decision YOU have to make on your own. Good Luck
2006-12-06 15:14:04 · answer #2 · answered by low1sk8er 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents will love you the same. Their love will not change for you. I hope you will get to see both of them at anytime you need help. Divorce will probably give your parents a new lease on life. They might be happier parent. So enjoy their love and take the good from it.
2006-12-06 13:40:34 · answer #3 · answered by Blackie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know they are better apart? Have they been apart before? Maybe you could talk them into going away together before it is final. They may find what they have been missing all this time. Just because they fight, doesn't mean that it is coming. Is one of them seeing someone else? You have the same fantasy of them growing old together. I had the same fantasy when my mom left us when I was 15.
2006-12-06 12:59:32 · answer #4 · answered by Sheila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is nature for you to be bother by your parents getting a divorce it's mom and dad going their separate ways, that hurts no matter what the reasons are.
2006-12-06 12:59:16 · answer #5 · answered by ladybug 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's bothering you because they are your parents and you feel for both of them. Let them fix their situation the best way they can think of. You just stick around and help out when asked.
Lots of Luck.
2006-12-06 12:54:00 · answer #6 · answered by Taz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a person is always bothered when parents are getting divorced.
2006-12-06 12:50:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋