HELP me plz?

Question

im 15 and i might be pregant. im scared plz help me. i really dont know what to do. i dont want to tell my parents and i DO NOT want an abortion. i dont want to kill a life that has not lived a year. plz. i seen the doctor and she said waht about a week then will see. thank you. ps ill keep you up dated on it im to have the results tomorrow.

i dont have the results yet the doctor made a mistake.

Answer 1

firstly honey. here are some symptoms of pregnancy, check them and then see your doctor, then he/she can discuss your options with you.

Tender, swollen breasts
One of the early signs of pregnancy is sensitive, sore breasts caused by increasing levels of hormones. The soreness may feel like an exaggerated version of how your breasts feel before your period. Your discomfort should diminish significantly after the first trimester, as your body adjusts to the hormonal changes.

Fatigue
Feeling tired all of a sudden? No, make that exhausted. No one knows for sure what causes early pregnancy fatigue, but it's possible that rapidly increasing levels of the hormone progesterone are contributing to your sleepiness.

You should start to feel more energetic once you hit your second trimester, although fatigue usually returns late in pregnancy when you're carrying around a lot more weight and some of the common discomforts of pregnancy make it more difficult to get a good night's sleep

Nausea or vomiting
If you're like most women, morning sickness won't hit until about a month after conception. (A lucky few escape it altogether.) But some women do start to feel queasy a bit earlier. And not just in the morning, either — pregnancy-related nausea and vomiting can be a problem morning, noon, or night.

About half of women with nausea feel complete relief by the beginning of the second trimester. For most others it takes another month or so for the queasiness to ease up.

Increased sensitivity to odors
If you're newly pregnant, it's not uncommon to feel repelled by the smell of a bologna sandwich or cup of coffee and for certain aromas to trigger your gag reflex. Though no one knows for sure, this may be a side effect of rapidly increasing amounts of estrogen in your system. You may also find that certain foods you used to enjoy are suddenly completely repulsive to you.

Abdominal bloating
Hormonal changes in early pregnancy may leave you feeling bloated, similar to the feeling some women have just before their period arrives. That's why your clothes may feel snugger than usual at the waistline, even early on when your uterus is still quite small.

Frequent urination
Shortly after you become pregnant, you may find yourself hurrying to the bathroom all the time. Why? Mostly because during pregnancy the amount of blood and other fluids in your body increases, which leads to extra fluid being processed by your kidneys and ending up in your bladder.

This symptom may start as early as six weeks into your first trimester and continue or worsen as your pregnancy progresses and your growing baby exerts more pressure on your bladder.

A missed period
If you're usually pretty regular and your period doesn't arrive on time, you'll probably take a pregnancy test long before you notice any of the above symptoms. But if you're not regular or you're not keeping track of your cycle, nausea and breast tenderness and extra trips to the bathroom may signal pregnancy before you realize you didn't get your period.

Your basal body temperature stays high
If you've been charting your basal body temperature and you see that your temperature has stayed elevated for 18 days in a row, you're probably pregnant

Good luck.

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Answer 2

OK well you have done the most important thing which was to see the doctor to find out FOR SURE! You might NOT be pregnant. But if you are, well, it won't be easy, but it's not going to be the end of the world either. First, you have options. You said you don't want an abortion and that's fine. Have you considered adoption? There are a lot of people out there who would give your baby an excellent home. Also, adoption doesn't necessarally mean never seeing the baby again. If you want they would probably be able to work something out where you could have some contact, etc. If you keep the baby there are people/organizations who can help with that. Ask your doctor.
As for telling your parents, well, if you are pregnant you are going to have to tell them. They WILL find out sooner or later. But if you are nervous/afraid talk to a teacher or another adult you can trust. They can go with you to tell your parents and help you out with all that. They will also help with making sure the father lives up to his responsibilities. There are A LOT of people who can help if you need it. GOOD LUCK!

Answer 3

You will have to tell them eventually. My best friends daughter is 15 and she thinks she may be pregnant too, but she told her mom right away and her mom took her to the clinic, etc..Abortion is not in their mind at all. NOt an option, so she is going to have the baby and work out her life from there. Its very possible to do and still have a great , and successful life. Hope it all works out for you. As soon as you get the results tell your mom. No one can make you get an abortion, so dont worry about that either.

Answer 4

First of all, its ok to be scared, I was. First thing you need to do is find out how far along you are. You say that abortion is not an option for you, thats ok. You need to find an adult close to you that you can talk to about this. I will continue to talk with you as long as you like. Wether you have a counselor at school or a family friend or an aunt or even an uncle you trust. You need to lay out a plan of action. Why you cannot tell your parents I understand, but you need to find someone you trust that yiou can turn to about this. You cannot hide your pregnancy from them you will at some point begin to show, and you need a plan.

Answer 5

Tell him ya so!! If he was turned off by it, he would have just ignored you and not teased you about it. Tell him, he'd be an idiot not to know you were crushing on him, and your just sorry it took you writing a note to figure it out. But you gotta say it with a smile and a little sexy attitude. Don't act weird or diffrent....Trust me, he teased you about it, it's ok. Now go ask him what he's gonna do about it, or, I prefer the bold method, and just give him a big ole kiss and get it over with...Good Luck

Answer 6

Ok first of all try and relax coz too much tension isnt good for your condition. Also remember that you are not the first 15yr old who is pregnant. I'm really sorry for you but you'll perhaps have to tell your parents. I know its really hrd to do that but you have to and they will eventually understand. Next up you will have to tell your bf about it too and he will have to take responsibility for it he doesnt have a choice or else he could go to prison for a long time.
Also it will help to pray about it and find a good friend who will pray with you. Remember that God works out any situation no matter how hard it seems.
Mail me for anything else.

Answer 7

Well, I was 16 when I had my first one and he is now 16. I chose to keep mine and so glad i did. For some though, adoption may be the better alternative. Its a wondrfil thing and its not selling your baby. its iving it a good life that you would not be able to provide, its a gift of love for the baby. Please don't have an abortion, you would never be able to live with that decision. I have friends that have tried for 18 years to have a child and cannot concieve they would love your baby.

Answer 8

Well, that's definitely a tough one! Not to have a whole "I told you so" moment, but you shouldn't have been having sex at such a young age anyway. But since you did and you have to live w/the consequences, you should keep it. See if maybe the father or your parents could take care of him/her while you're still educating yourself. Don't let something like that keep you from graduating from high school or going to college.

Life is gonna be tough...You better be strong.

Answer 9

ummm... so whos the lucky guy who shoved his you not what into your you know what? Blame him, hes just ruined your entire life! Now you will be making appearances on Maury, Jerry Springer, Oprah (that'd be kinda cool), Tyra Bank (ugly), etc. Feel bad for you. You should tell your parents. Of course youll be grounded in that fortrace of solitude, but its the only way. You could always give it up at ANY fire station or hospital. ABORTION is always the other option. If you go to china, that would be ethical, hope its a boy!!!!!!

Answer 10

If you were my daughter, I'd want you to tell me. I would be mad, and scared too. But finding out later that you were suffering through this alone would kill me.

I admire your stance on abortion, and I admire the strength you'll exihibit in the coming years.

I admit I can't relate directly to your situation... but if there are people you need now, it will be your doctor and your parents. Listen to and trust both.