2006-12-06 12:42:01 · 5 answers · asked by drisco21 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I can't believe a person wouldn't know. The feelings must be obvious....but what do I know?
2006-12-06 12:45:18 · answer #1 · answered by mstrywmn 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they even question that they have gay tendencies they probably do. People without a shred of "gayness" never question whether they have gay tendencies.
I think if the person is young and questionning his/her preferences that person should just kind of wait and see what maturity and any "tendencies" tend to bring. I don't think you can "go about finding out". I think you need to just wait until it becomes very clear to you what you are or aren't.
2006-12-06 20:49:22 · answer #2 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The following sounds logical but it doesn't pass the test:
If your a guy, rent a gay porn, if you like seeing thaty stuff and you want to try it with another "cute" guy you know...then bro, your gay...
I am a man, if I enjoy watching lesbians, does that mean I am a lesbian.
And, if I don't enjoy seeing any porno, does that mean I am a-sexual.
And, if a person does not enjoy Gay men porno, does that prove he is not Gay?
The best thing today is "don't rush into anything" especially don't rush into societies pigeon holes and stereotypes.
enjoy your life and be kind to others.
If you have a friend who you start feely sexy about, tell him or her, but don't rush into it.
The old-timers had the best advice, "Honesty is the best policy"
Of course, "Kindness is the best method of showing honesty"
2006-12-06 20:56:30 · answer #3 · answered by MrsOcultyThomas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you look at a guy with more interest than you do a woman. thats how you know. now, if you want to know how to find out. go up to them with a set of ball*s and ask him to go for a coffee or whatever you would like to drink. right there and now.
2006-12-06 21:01:31 · answer #4 · answered by shyboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your a guy, rent a gay porn, if you like seeing thaty stuff and you want to try it with another "cute" guy you know...then bro, your gay...
2006-12-06 20:45:27 · answer #5 · answered by musclehead12279 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋