me and my bf been together for olmost 3 years & we have a baby .i'm 21&he is 23.while ib was olmost 7month he came to RI 4 a better futer but the thing is that he was in RI for olmost a year &he didnt have a good job.we have to live in the worst basement of the world bc we cuoldnt move bc he didnt have agood job.so i muve to my aunt house.recently he went back to NY bc he was going to find a good job but i told him that make the decision to muve to miami bu i've been thrugh a lat of thing wihth him .dont he get mi wrong he is a nice guy and he loaves me death.some advice please..
2006-12-06 12:33:37 · 10 answers · asked by *myself* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you want a better life, your are going to have to do it yourself. You may love him, but it doesn't sound as if he is responsible, you need to work on getting some education & job skills, so that you can take care of yourself, and your child. I know this won't be easy, but what other choice do you have, continue to live in poverty, or off relatives? You are a mother now, take charge of your life,for the sake of your child, he may be a great guy, but he is a bit of a bum.
2006-12-06 12:42:41 · answer #1 · answered by Kimberly H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible for you to get a job to help with the financial situation? Or can both of you possibly go back to school and work on a degree. Even a two year associate degree is better than no degree. These days more than ever a college degree is what will get you noticed. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-06 12:36:51 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to decide what you three can do. Sit down with him and find out what he wants to do. If you feel that it will work out then go for it, You won't really know the outcome until you move or do something major. Tell him that you want for him to be with you and the baby and you want a more steady and stable life.
2006-12-06 12:36:57 · answer #3 · answered by Nattiedred 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is going to sound awful, but if this is the way you actually spell I think you need to focus on an education right now, to help you get better work.
2006-12-06 12:35:32 · answer #4 · answered by gg 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG....ive tried reading this crap three times and have given up. You say you are twenty-one, however, you write like you are ten!!
nonsensical pathetic mess brought to you by yet another illiterate product, courtesy of the public school system
2006-12-06 12:40:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its up to you. Would you like your baby to grow in a bad environment?
2006-12-06 12:36:47 · answer #6 · answered by mared 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big Girl-
Lern to spel b4 screwing a fellow nice gy.
tboj
P.s. sori
2006-12-06 12:36:42 · answer #7 · answered by Johnny P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a better education either you or him. then a better job and everything will come to place.
2006-12-06 12:36:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, just movce on, no one is worth a hassel!
2006-12-06 12:35:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hu?
2006-12-06 12:35:55 · answer #10 · answered by scrappy06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋