Well i need help. i dont know what to do. I dont know who to live with. It would only be like a 5 mile difference anyways,
Pros and Cons for Father
He looks at PORN. im afraid to be alone with him. He tries to turn my words against my mom. He is kindof scary when hes pissed off and is a Dick sometimes. He masterbates with the door open, etc. Pros-umm. makes more money, can ride the same bus to school.
Pros and Cons of mom-
Cons-shes moody alot, id have to switch buses, i thinks she likes another guy, umm..cant really think of anymore
Pro-Doesnt look at porn, can trust her, we have a better relationship id say.
Pros and Cons of Both
Cons- Id have to put my dog asleep hes 11 and has bad arthritis so i wouldnt mind it that bad, put down my cat as well, feel hated by one, they both force me to try to talk about what they each ask me.
Pros-Better LIfe
2006-12-06 12:01:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Daddy sounds scarier - go with Mommy.
2006-12-06 12:07:59 · answer #1 · answered by Jacob F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound as if you are a bright child. I would suggest you talk to your mother and maybe a teacher or minister. First the divorce is not your fault. Sometimes grownups are not very smart or grownup as they should be. In my estimation from what you said I would advise you to stay with your mother. The info on your dad does not make for a healthy environment for a child,and like some of the other people have said he sounds scary and mentally disturbed.
2006-12-06 16:30:40 · answer #2 · answered by unionjack07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dads got real problems, don't go with him. Mom's not perfect either but she's safe. As soon as you're old enough, start working part time and get your own place with a close friend as a roomate while you go to school. Your parents have ruined lives. That's their problem not yours. You need to focus on your own future, starting with your safety and mental well being. Your dad is not the place for that.
2006-12-06 12:08:33 · answer #3 · answered by jazzcrazy1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your scared of your dad, don't worry how much money he makes, and you and your mom and you have a good relationship so stay with. Plus she sounds like a way better person. No offense to your father
2006-12-06 12:21:13 · answer #4 · answered by cutey_500 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with your mother and tell her that being alone with your father makes you uncomfortable. It is completely inappropriate for your father to masturbate with the door open, knowing his child(ren) are at home.
2006-12-06 12:25:47 · answer #5 · answered by Jille K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with your mother.
2006-12-06 12:10:16 · answer #6 · answered by ♥It's a boy♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋