What can happen if my girlfriend is pregnant??

Question

Im 18 and my girlfriend is 15. Last weekend we had sex and my condom broke. i dont know if she is pregnant yet but if she is can i go to jail for that and if i do will i ever get to see her again? we have been together for 2 years and she is the love of my life. i have a great future goin for me, im in college and i work 2 jobs. the last thing i want is me goin to jail and not being able to be with her. i dont know if i would be a sex offender. please help me out.

Answer 1

Hi Honey, firstly, make sure she is pregnant, don't go shouting to the world just yet otherwise you could get yourself into lots of trouble.

Here are some symptoms of pregnancy, check them and then see a doctor.

Tender, swollen breasts
One of the early signs of pregnancy is sensitive, sore breasts caused by increasing levels of hormones. The soreness may feel like an exaggerated version of how your breasts feel before your period. Your discomfort should diminish significantly after the first trimester, as your body adjusts to the hormonal changes.

Fatigue
Feeling tired all of a sudden? No, make that exhausted. No one knows for sure what causes early pregnancy fatigue, but it's possible that rapidly increasing levels of the hormone progesterone are contributing to your sleepiness.

You should start to feel more energetic once you hit your second trimester, although fatigue usually returns late in pregnancy when you're carrying around a lot more weight and some of the common discomforts of pregnancy make it more difficult to get a good night's sleep

Nausea or vomiting
If you're like most women, morning sickness won't hit until about a month after conception. (A lucky few escape it altogether.) But some women do start to feel queasy a bit earlier. And not just in the morning, either — pregnancy-related nausea and vomiting can be a problem morning, noon, or night.

About half of women with nausea feel complete relief by the beginning of the second trimester. For most others it takes another month or so for the queasiness to ease up.

Increased sensitivity to odors
If you're newly pregnant, it's not uncommon to feel repelled by the smell of a bologna sandwich or cup of coffee and for certain aromas to trigger your gag reflex. Though no one knows for sure, this may be a side effect of rapidly increasing amounts of estrogen in your system. You may also find that certain foods you used to enjoy are suddenly completely repulsive to you.

Abdominal bloating
Hormonal changes in early pregnancy may leave you feeling bloated, similar to the feeling some women have just before their period arrives. That's why your clothes may feel snugger than usual at the waistline, even early on when your uterus is still quite small.

Frequent urination
Shortly after you become pregnant, you may find yourself hurrying to the bathroom all the time. Why? Mostly because during pregnancy the amount of blood and other fluids in your body increases, which leads to extra fluid being processed by your kidneys and ending up in your bladder.

This symptom may start as early as six weeks into your first trimester and continue or worsen as your pregnancy progresses and your growing baby exerts more pressure on your bladder.

A missed period
If you're usually pretty regular and your period doesn't arrive on time, you'll probably take a pregnancy test long before you notice any of the above symptoms. But if you're not regular or you're not keeping track of your cycle, nausea and breast tenderness and extra trips to the bathroom may signal pregnancy before you realize you didn't get your period.

Your basal body temperature stays high
If you've been charting your basal body temperature and you see that your temperature has stayed elevated for 18 days in a row, you're probably pregnant

Good luck.

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Answer 2

The legal term is statutory rape and in most states the law says you have to be 16 to have consentual sex. So, yes, you could be arrested and sent to jail. In some states you can even be considered a sex offender depending on what you are charged with.

It makes me sad that you say she is the love of your life and you are only 18. You haven't had a life yet and already you're talking with your hormones and not your brain. She is a young girl, who is just starting high school (sophomore, right?). My 15 year old daughter is not allowed to date anyone older than 16 just for that reason. Your hormones are raging and lust is being confused for love. Your brain isn't between your legs. Start using it instead. You'll find that there is a world out there and the love of your life has yet to enter it.

Answer 3

Sorry dude, but you are having sex with a minor, and that is against the law. All she has to say is that.....or her parents say anything, or file a complaint, and you are definitely screwed. You really need to think this over very carefully before having sex with her again, at least until she's 17. If she is pregnant, and the police are involved, then the deal is sealed, you'll be going to jail. I know you have feelings for her, but it is against the law. Best of luck to you.

Answer 4

Well, as you know she is under age. But the only way that you would go to jail is if someone pressed charges. Like her Mom or Dad. Or her. It doesn't sound like she would. Why is she not on birth control? This may be your wake up call to do something about that. She can go to planned parenthood and get birth control. When was her last period? Check to see by her ovulation calendar if she was ovulating. IF it was only a week after her period she probably was not ovulating. At least use the rythm method man, use the head on your shoulders, not the other one.

Answer 5

It really depends on what state you live in and whether or not anyone (like her family) press charges. If you have a good relationship with her family and they know the age difference: Calm down chances are your safe. If say they do press charges and you are convicted of either Lewd Acts with a Minor or Statutory Rape: then yes you would be classified as a sex offender. But like I said, someone would have to press charges first. Take Care.

Answer 6

Statutory rape is the phrase. It is a crime to have sex with a minor. If she becomes pregnant, then you could be in for some trouble, plus she is probably not ready to become a mother. You better hope she doesn't get pregnant because the choices become uncomfortable...a secret abortion won't be fun for her. Carrying the pregnancy to term for adoption puts you in trouble with the law and would totally screw up your life and relationship. If you insist on having sex with a minor and admit to starting when she was 13...shame on you...then at least get her on the pill. This time, get lucky...next time, get smart. Better hope her dad never finds out!

Answer 7

man, she's underage. Good news for you, I don't think you run that much of a risk fo going to jail. Girls under 12 getting pregnant by anyone over her age range is considered rape no matter what. Girls over 14 getting pregnant by someone within her age range is legal. If her parents are not involved in this, good news is that you are completely legal. Trust me on this one, i had to find that out for good reasons. But you should understand that she is underage, that means someone is still her guardian, and that her guardian can get involved against her will, and you might be in for a little trouble. If she marries you...she still need parental consent...well, if she marries you, then you are legal. By the way, it also depends on which country you are in, US or Canada, and which state or province you are in, it varies from place to place. Search online for your state/province's sex crime laws.

Answer 8

nine months from now the stork will come and convey you a child. What the heck do you consider occurs? a million. Tell your mum and dad. two. Decide what you are going to do: maintain it, abort, or positioned it up for adoption. three. Be concerned to your female friend's lifestyles. She demands the entire help she will get. four. Never have intercourse once more. Your privilege has been taken away due to the fact that you are no longer doing it correct.

Answer 9

Umm yeah you'd be a sex offender, it's called statutory rape and at her age it wouldn't matter if it was consentual sex because she is only 15. I suggest you start to practice on how NOT to drop soap in a "community" shower. You can pretty much kiss your college and jobs goodbye.

Answer 10

If shes pregnant and her parents push for rape charges, theres a good chance. Even if she consented. Shes still a minor and her parents have all the consent. Hopefully shes not, cause y'all are too young to be starting a family. I wish ya all the best!