My step brother is a pain n the rear. He never shuts up and is always making weird noises or saying something that irritates me. I need ways to relieve stress without going to a therapist (which would be nice but not happening) Any way he irritates me so much that I've caught myself wanting him to fly out the windshield of the family car. Does that make me a bad person? Regardless of if it is or isn't i'm disappointed in myself for letting people make me mean. Any tips to get me to calm myself or block him out. I've tried counting to 10 and even 100 but that doesn't help at all.
2006-12-06 11:18:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
As far as irritating siblings/relatives..everyone has one. We would not be humans if we were not bothered by the behavior of those around us. Orchestrate in your mind a method to join him in an activity that suits both of you. Don't allow him to get to you...Because in the instant you do so..He has power over you. Mind over Matter young feller.
2006-12-06 11:32:17 · answer #1 · answered by 35 YEARS OF INTUITION 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Sir,
1. 1000 is an attainable goal. Keep on truckin'.
2. Throw the jerk through the windshield. Seriously. It may relieve stress. It may also get you arrested, but hey, the annoyance will end.
3. Go to yahoo answers. Type nonsensical and incredibly sardonic remarks to those whom you meet. I promise, of all things, this will be your best bet.
Thanks,
Pianoguy
2006-12-06 11:28:54 · answer #2 · answered by pianoguy05 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try to be friends with him. Say come on with me, you are driving me crazy and then take him to hang with you and your friends for a little while. After you get used to each other he may lay off. If some people know that something annoys you, they will keep doing it.
2006-12-06 11:31:25 · answer #3 · answered by Jacks036 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok here is something that really works.
If there's something that troubles you that you can do nothing about:
-visualize the problem in detail
-place the problem (in this case your step brother with his mouth open and flapping) onto the windshield of your car
-visualize the wipers wiping him away, along with his mouth
-if the problem returns, do the visualization again.
-try this. It really works.
Good luck.
2006-12-06 14:36:35 · answer #4 · answered by concernedjean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is your brother and there is nothing you can do about it and that works both ways. So give him a big hug every time he does it. I promise he will soon stop. Tell him how happy you are he is your brother.
2006-12-06 11:32:23 · answer #5 · answered by JAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get an ipod like me and turn it up really high so u can't hear anyone.
2006-12-06 11:22:18 · answer #6 · answered by tyler. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try and hide from him and avoid his presence..if he seeks your presence out, just say,' hey kid brother im busy go away'..if he doesnt do a kong fu back flip, and roundhouse him out the door tkcre
2006-12-06 11:28:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
sing songs in your head....get jiggy with it....whatever the hell that means
2006-12-06 11:22:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋