i was on myspace about 5 mins ago and i left my Boyfriend a comment that was one of the little cartoon thingys and it said " Me and you should have sex !" and i was just playing around but know he thinks im seriose and he just called me saying he would like that what should i do ?
2006-12-06 11:10:09 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Say "I was just kidding"
2006-12-06 11:12:02 · answer #1 · answered by graduatecj08 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't want to have sex, why would you leave such a message?? As for the current situation, I'd tell him the truth, you weren't thinking and you thought it would be cute but you weren't serious. Next time, think before you act. Joking about sex like that can get you labeled a tease.
2006-12-06 19:22:22 · answer #2 · answered by jude89 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes you did screw up big time. Why would you think that he would consider this a joke? In my day you'd be called a tease. Is that the kind of impression you want to give people? You had better explain to him that you were being dumb and didn't mean to mislead him in any way. Say your sorry and NEVER do that again!
2006-12-06 20:14:12 · answer #3 · answered by goldensparkler61 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him he has to earn it first.Then put it off forever.Trust me!! I don't know how old you are but you should check out the pregnancy part of this with young girls getting pregnant and how scared they are.This is not a lecture just stating the obvious.Good luck!
2006-12-06 19:16:09 · answer #4 · answered by lady2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth with no ifs ands or buts. . . " I was kidding. . I do NOT want to have sex" Teenage boys hormones know nothing but what they dream about. That WAS a serious mistake so make sure he KNOWS that its NOT happening.
2006-12-06 19:54:59 · answer #5 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue to mess with him, so eventually without actually saying it, he'll hopefully get the hint that your kidding. If he continues to think you were serious then just tell off the bat, that you were just joking.
2006-12-06 19:12:29 · answer #6 · answered by [Pro♥Mom] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing you would do if you put a message on his web site saying I should pay you ten thousand dollars! A mistake is a mistake.
2006-12-06 19:12:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell your b/f that you were just kidding, and that your not ready for that kind of stuff yet..Hopefully he will understand, and get the picture...! Good Luck..! Maybe next time, think b4 you post stuff like that...!
2006-12-06 23:40:16 · answer #8 · answered by *Proud Mommy Of 2* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth.
but do it like this
"oh you not serious are you? You know that was just a joke right? Gosh you can be so sill y sometimes" It's all in the tone of your voice.
2006-12-06 19:13:21 · answer #9 · answered by pixi_doll 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him you r not ready for tht and u were just trying to have some fun messing around. A mistake, tht is all
2006-12-06 19:15:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step up & tell him you were just kidding. Sex is serious!! Its not something that you should joke around about.
Dont have sex if you aren't ready!!
2006-12-06 19:13:04 · answer #11 · answered by Trish 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋