I am 16 and all my friends are in relationships and ******* their way through life...
I have never had a GF or sex eventhough I am a rather hot guy...(I dunno it's some kind of a paradox)
I feel utterly annyed when I see and think about my friends who have sex...it's as if I feel jealous..
Any thoughts?
2006-12-06 10:54:07 · 13 answers · asked by G-Unit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's a good thing that you haven't. Wait until YOU are ready & the older you are the more mature & responsible you will be about it when it does happen. Plus, you'll probably be the one to find true love when it does happen because you don't have sex in the way of the relationship you may be in. It's a more honest relationship as far as getting to know each other if sex isn't in the way of things. If you do decide to have sex, make sure to be safe. Don't be a fool & not use a condom. There's too much diseases & pregnancies out there.
2006-12-08 07:13:33 · answer #1 · answered by Jaysangl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get a sense that you're being pressured because you're the odd-man out. It's normal for you to feel "jealous", but you do not have to feel ashamed. Sometimes guys lie that they have sex [just to show their manliness & the fact that they can f*** a girl], and some just boast for the same reasons. Guys [I'm assuming they're around your age] who have a GF, and have sex at a young age [i doubt they're married] aren't going to be successful in their future relationships [trust me]. They do not know how to respect their own body and their girlfriends body - [pregnancy, stds, emotionally wrecking the girls' life]. Don't worry about not having a girlfriend - these types of relationships involve maturity, and unfortunately, your friends do not know how to have a relationship with a girl. If you can respect people, you'll someday have a GF. However, if you have a shell covering your true self, break it and expose your wonderful qualities to the people you encounter with. Surely, someone will notice, and you and that someone can be GF & BF.
2006-12-06 11:24:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok well im 21yo and (not to be vain) a stunner, i had my first bf when i was 20 and i gave him my virginity.
I know how you feel as I felt the same way when I was your age. If your virginity matters at all to you then I suggest is not to follow the trend but to follow your feelings.
You dont need to have a girlfriend because everyone else has one, you will only need a girlfriend when your ready and truely want someone.
Love just happens, so does relationships so dont force it. I understand you would feel slightly jealous of your friends but its not sex or girlfriends that have anything to do with it, your jealous because theyre all doing and talking about something that you dont have anything in common with BUT its ok! Its alright to be different.
Live your life, you are still young, wait for that special someone... theres no rush.
2006-12-06 11:07:54 · answer #3 · answered by cheekee_bum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a normal guy, you just are not sexually active yet. You may feel like you're in there doing what youe friends are doing. It will come when you find the right girl and when the time is right. Don't feel annoyed, let them do their thing and you do yours.
2006-12-06 10:58:35 · answer #4 · answered by justmmez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing wrong with not having sex yet one of my friends didnt have sex untill he was 21. fall in love with the right person first.
2006-12-06 10:59:35 · answer #5 · answered by death_of_faries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best things come to those that wait. Things happen at ther eown pace when its your time you will know so just be patient ok.
2006-12-06 11:14:07 · answer #6 · answered by njpinkprincess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just not ready for it at this time--when the time is right--you'll know it. Just be you and do what you feel and think you need to do. You have plenty of time for that.
2006-12-06 10:59:20 · answer #7 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong wit you if you haven't had sex before. i havent had it neither and i dont want too until i get married. you should just wait until youre married or the right time with the right woman
2006-12-06 10:58:02 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dude! Dont worry about others first of all just because they did it but you didnt so first make sure to have a girlfriend and all before u have it.u can do it wit me.lol;)
2006-12-06 11:13:08 · answer #9 · answered by nococaine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you dude.Your still young and I wouldn't worry about it too much.When the time is right, it'll happen,and it'll be that much better when it does! Trust me!
2006-12-06 11:01:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋