This boy liked me in seventh grade and I didn't like him back.Then in eighth grade I became anorexic and he started not to like.Now,in ninth grade I gained a few pounds but I'm still skinny.Some girl said he said "he would not go with me until I get bigger because I look better when I'm bigger".Should I gain weight because he liked me better before I wasn't skinny.Then,on days he thinks I look skinny he says he does'nt like me.I know that I should'nt do things just to please peoplebut I kind of like him.
2006-12-06 09:49:30 · 16 answers · asked by heyeverybody 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
NOOOOOOOOOOOOO, that can do sssssssserious harm wehn u grow up, dont make a sacrifice that big just for a guy!!!
2006-12-06 09:51:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Okay, you should not gain the pounds because of some boy. You should gain the pounds and become a healthy weight for your own benefit. Anorexia is a serious condtion and being underweight is not good. Anorexia is life theartening. Please gain some more weight you look better and you will be healthier.
2006-12-06 17:53:46 · answer #2 · answered by brooke992002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1, you need to gain the right amount of weight for your body type and height. don't gain or lose weight for a boy. you are still too young to be worrying about boys and dating. it sounds like he isn't certain that he likes you, and i would hate to see you go through emotional problems and self-doubt over a boy who is probably 13 or 14, and doesn't even know what his interests are going to be tomorrow! you need to get well from the anorexia with the help of friends and family. concentrate on getting better, and good luck.
2006-12-06 18:01:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does your doctor say? How about your close friends (the ones who aren't afraid to tell you the truth?) Ask THEM. You don't need to let others control how you look or feel about yourself. If you think you need to gain a couple pounds to fill out a bit, then YOU decide. It's your body, your choice.
2006-12-06 17:57:31 · answer #4 · answered by Capt. Obvious 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should gain weight anyway because it is unhealthy to be too skinny. Honestly, a guy should like you for you, not your pants size or shirt size...just be yourself.
2006-12-06 18:19:30 · answer #5 · answered by KeLs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gain weight because you need not be an anorexic chick for one its not cute but learn to love yourself. don't do anything for some boy. get some self esteem
2006-12-06 17:56:30 · answer #6 · answered by toe t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you should gain weight for him or even worry about him i think you should gain weight for YOU. dont even deal with him right now because you seem to have some issues you need to sort out, self consciousness, just try to be happy with youself . your a wonderful person just remember that
2006-12-06 17:55:18 · answer #7 · answered by Sami M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't gain weight for him, but gain weight for yourself. you seem too skinny, and that skinny people don't look to good. you got to be the perfect weight.
2006-12-06 17:54:58 · answer #8 · answered by Hayla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gaining weight because you want to is almost as bad as loosing it, just be yourself and he will come around eventually.
2006-12-06 17:52:33 · answer #9 · answered by bootjack 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dont change yourself for other people. if you really want to cahnge your self, then start eating more. but not junk foods that will make you fat in and unhealthy way. try eating healthy foods
2006-12-06 17:52:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋