2006-12-06 09:45:36 · 17 answers · asked by Baram J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ask her. and if she lies, leave.
2006-12-06 09:50:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could pack up your bags? or You can tell her to leave? I don't think your going to do either one of them. You going to believe her story. You will give her the benefit of the doubt. I found at different time's in my 10 yr. marriage condoms and every time he give me a story. There my friends and he ask for me to hold them because he didn't want his girl to find them. My come back to him was Oh it's OK for me to find them instead? and the story's were I find them etc... the story went on and on. At the end he was cheating alright. Things do happen it's true a person find something in pick it up. Like example true story My husband and I took a walk to the store and on the way back he notice a key it was a motel key he picked it up in put it in his pocket. I said you know if I wasn't with you and saw that and I was doing the laundry and found that I will have swear up in down you were at a motel. You see that's when the benefit of the doubt plays in. You just keep notes on her were abouts without her knowing it. Is she late coming home alot or doe's she leave a lot more then she use to. Things like that. want you should do is buy her Ten Stupid Things Couples do to Mess Up Their Relationships by Dr. Laura C. Schlessinger .
2006-12-06 18:11:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I assume there is no reason she would be having them for you....
Confront. Catch her off guard. Her reason had better be good. Don't tell her "I need to talk to you..." and give her time to think of a lie. Just be happy, sitting down for dinner....
"So......why do you carry condoms in your bag?" and don't let her derail it by getting mad at you for going through her stuff. Stay on it - don't let her buy time to think of a lie.
There may actually be a reason?? I don't know what it could be - be fair, but don't be a fool.
p.s. consult with a lawyer first if you have time.
2006-12-06 17:50:25 · answer #3 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are you doing go through your wife's hand bag? That is an invasion of personal space. Now your wife knows that she can't trust you and you don't trust her. So talk to her about and stop your assuming.
2006-12-06 18:04:11 · answer #4 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That sounds like evidence of a current affair. Oooops...she got sloppy. You need to face her and find out if the marriage can be salvaged.
2006-12-06 17:48:45 · answer #5 · answered by jayjay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You already know, but are just scared to accept the evidence.
Confront her with them and figure out whether you want to try and forgive her.
2006-12-06 17:51:37 · answer #6 · answered by Ritz Grimarren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and your wife don't use condoms during sex.....I'd flip the f#*k out!!!!!!!! It would be a fight of biblical proportions!!!
2006-12-06 17:50:23 · answer #7 · answered by Pimpstick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would calmly ask her why they were there... maybe she has a good excuse like they were a gag for a friend or maybe they are for you.
If it seems like shes lying to you. You have alot of talking to do with her.
Good luck to you.
2006-12-06 17:50:03 · answer #8 · answered by Purcell10 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you guys are not using them then they should not be in there you need to question that lady and see waht going on in there.
2006-12-06 17:49:25 · answer #9 · answered by CaramelSundae 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
perhaps your sex-life is pretty bad and she's getting it somewhere else.... if you love her talk with her. Woman usually don't stray unless they are pretty unhappy.
2006-12-06 17:59:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Panic...unless she gives them to you. Yes your feeling is correct.
Only you know what you must do.
2006-12-06 17:49:01 · answer #11 · answered by John B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋