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So I like this guy and from talking to him he seems like he may be bi like hes pretty masculine and plays baseball but i can just tell but he seems very straight its just his voice sounds slightly camper like most wouldnt notice and he sort of switches once again most wouldnt notice but i do get a vibe he is gay and sometimes I gaze at him and he gazes back most of the time I look at him and he gazes back and we get that mutual response he always stares back but sometimes I get nervous and look away then today I turned around and he made eye contact first a couple of times finalLLLLLLLLLY then I got nervous maybe thats a way to let me know that he is intreted what do you think we seem to connect and I think we are both closet bi boys what should I say to take it to the next level do you think he likes me. What can I do to make sure Its what I think it is.How can i make the next move without embarrasing myself thanks.

2006-12-06 09:45:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

7 answers

I think building the friendship thing is key. Once you have become friends let him know that you are okay with gay and bi people. If he is available that should be enough of a hint. If he's not you have not blown your cover.
Good luck.

2006-12-06 18:54:33 · answer #1 · answered by San Diego Art Nut 6 · 0 0

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2016-05-23 01:52:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

First off, do not make any sudden moves. If I'm correct here, I'm thinking he is attracted to you because of your "straightness" (you know what I'm talking about here), and that is the best way to bait him as well. Get to know him as a friend first. If he is playing straight, then you play straight with him until you create a bond. I'm not asking you to become someone else, but find common ground for now, then slowly (and I do mean slowly) take it to the next level by letting him know of your sexual preference. But you must first become his friend (someone he can trust) before making such a bold move. There is no need to rush this for now. Keep your hormones on the "low" and let your personalities connect....then take it from there. Good luck!

2006-12-06 09:57:34 · answer #3 · answered by lildiesel2001 2 · 0 0

Tell hm that you can't find anyone to go see a movie that you REALLY want to see and ask him if he wants to go with you. Also ask if he can sleep-over that night since the movie might get out late. Go from there. He sounds interested and we are ALL bi at some point in our lives.

2006-12-06 09:55:00 · answer #4 · answered by loose_canadian 3 · 1 0

Invite him to join you "and a bunch of your friends" for lunch, but don't invite anyone else but him. When he shows tell him evryone else bailed on you. Then just spend time with him. After doing that it should be pretty easy to figure out where he stands.

2006-12-06 09:59:04 · answer #5 · answered by Bethe W 4 · 0 0

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2017-02-19 20:03:34 · answer #6 · answered by Nathaniel 4 · 0 0

im only answering this question to tell loose canadian i've never been any gay, except when i was molested as a child by my neighbor, but that doesnt count does it. and, i'm sorry its hard for you to tell if this guy shares your lifestyle.

2006-12-06 10:02:39 · answer #7 · answered by NNY 6 · 0 3

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