2006-12-06 09:38:47 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I am a gay man.
2006-12-06 09:41:47 · update #1
Alright, alright. Bisexuals can be faithful and in relationships.
2006-12-06 09:48:17 · update #2
Absolutely not!
I resent that!
I'm a bisexual female. I'm always faithful to my partner, I don't always want sex any more than anyone else (with exception to those individuals who are genuinely addicted to sex and who need help).
I don't have relationships with both genders at the same time.
It just means I'm just as likely to be attracted to a male as a female, sometimes more so a female than a male, but the ability to be attracted to a male is still there. Just not while I'm in a committed relationship.
AND YES, I'm in a Committed Relationship of ten years!
...and NO IT'S NOT A DIFFRENT LIFESTYLE!!!
GODS!!! My STYLE of living is that of a mother and a life partner. I don't drive a bisexual car, live in a bisexual house, live in a bisexual neighborhood, wear bisexual clothes, shop at bisexual stores, eat bisexual food, listen to bisexual music....I simply LIVE MY LIFE!
Being a bisexual is no more a style of Living than is being heterosexual or homosexual. It's just who we are! Damn it.
2006-12-06 09:44:48 · answer #1 · answered by DEATH 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I think you get the picture, since everyone else has already replied, but I'll say it again- NO!!!!!
There are so many happy, committed, faithful monogamous bisexuals who have no problem with intimacy and loving. Even those who choose to be polyamorous don't necessarily have such problems (i.e. polyamory isn't a lack of commitment/faithfulness, but a choice). There probably are some bisexuals who fit your description, but then again, there are probably some straight and gay people who do, too.
You really should know better! There's already enough rumors spread around about bisexuals creating biphobia, from both sides- gay and straight.
Hope you've been educated!
2006-12-06 09:54:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't fear commitment. I have no issues committing to one person once I have feelings for them, know for sure that I can trust them and as long as the other person can commit too. I don't exactly fear intimacy but I am very cautious when it comes to getting close to anyone. Getting close means divulging information about yourself, letting them in and risking betrayal. BQ: I push away or ignore people who can't commit. Commitment is essential. I'm okay with those who fear intimacy. Leo sun Libra moon Scorpio rising Leo venus
2016-05-23 01:51:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
An interesting theory. Like every generality there are exceptions. Some say Bi's are just 'greedy'. Some say Bi's are just honest in point that they acknowledge the fact they have an attraction for both sexes!
Personally I am in a monogamous same sex relationship, in which I am happy and know that I have found a soul mate that no one of the opposite sex could match. Therefore Bi-sexuality for me is a hard concept to truly grasp if you believe in monogamy. However not everyone does believe in monogamy, or even feel that they have yet found a relationship that truly satisfies them - therefore (in a slightly more restrained way!) I wouldn't entirely disagree with your statement!
2006-12-06 09:46:12 · answer #4 · answered by waggy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, noooooo. Bisexuals are folks who enjoy being with either gender. Just because they enjoy the aspects of each gender, does not mean they cannot be intimate and committed to one partner at a time. Simply means that at one point the person might be partnered with a male, and at some other point in life might be partnered with a female.
2006-12-06 10:06:32 · answer #5 · answered by Myst 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this bi guy has been in a monogamous relationship with a guy for 18 years (OMG). So in the world of the people that got put in little boxes you'd say I'm gay. I'm bi-sexual, I am sexually attracted to both male and females. I cannot just be satisfied with what you think I should be satisfied with and that just pisses you off a little, right mate..People of the human kind should never say never to anything..We all got one shot in this body this time around. Nothing can tell me what is right or wrong for me but my heart and my soul and my God. Even God doesn't tell me, he let's me experience things and people first and gives me the right of choice. Then the heart and soul he gave me let's me put things in perspective and keeps the things I can live with and discard the one's I cant...No human on this planet can tell me what is right or wrong..... ****You should know that I am a high-school drop out of limited intelligence, very little financial security and little to no social standing whatsoever, so please keep that in mind when considering my answers....Kevin
2006-12-06 10:19:25 · answer #6 · answered by sckreet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll speak for myself, I am a bisexual female that has been in a relationship for six years now. My boyfriend is well aware of me being bi, it is my choice to stay faithful to him. I respect him to the utmost, I am willing to hold off on the women, maybe forever. That doesn' t mean that my sexual preference will change, I'm just not going to throw away my relationship for NOBODY.
2006-12-06 10:00:44 · answer #7 · answered by ahneya2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. They are people, their orientation is not geared to be exclusively attracted to one sex or the other but that does not make them any less capable of intimacy or commitment than any other orientation.
Spreading negative stereotypes is not a good thing.
2006-12-06 09:46:18 · answer #8 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i had a boyfriend that was a sex addict, we were together for 2 years I got tired of him cheating on me so i broke up with him. he loved being in a committed relationship but had to have sex with other men all the time too.
2006-12-06 09:50:10 · answer #9 · answered by TRACER 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No they are just people who know what they want and are not intimidated by a puritanical prudish society filled with people who are affraid to express themselves sexually.
Sex is not a bad thing. You were told that by people who want to keep you under their view of how you should lead your life.
2006-12-06 09:41:33 · answer #10 · answered by keith s 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋