hello my fiance was in drug rehab in missouri for about 1 1/2 months.she was sent there by her probation for destruction of private propery.i dont think there was anything from the Judge saying she had to go.but her probation made her go and she was almost done and she skiped a class.sighned in but left.so the rehab kicked her out.when she found this out she took a couple zanax.the police came and got her from rehab and brought her to jail.my phone is in my fathers name.and he blocked all collect calls so i havent heard from her.i no shes freaking out.it there anyway she could conntact me are me contact her.the jail sayed they dont take any messages. shes in there for probation and parole violation.for being kicked out and the drugs.but they didnt drug test her as far as i know.they could just tell she was a little high.is there anything i can do to help her not go to prison? i really dont have any money so i guess i cant get a attorney.any suggestions would be greatly appreciated
2006-12-06 09:24:26 · 9 answers · asked by derrik 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
The judge must have ordered her to rehab as a condition of her probation. Since she skipped out, or was kicked out of rehab, a warrant went out for her arrest, and she was soon picked up and returned to jail on probation violations. She should have a public defender on her case. Try to find out who that is. She should have a hearing, and may have an opportunity to bond out depending on what her charges are. Whatever happens, encourage her to finish rehab. It sounds like she needs it. Good luck!
2006-12-06 09:35:03 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Strain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure where you are but in Canada, you could write her a letter. Also if you have someone willing to help you, try doing a 3-way call. That way they get the collect call. That's what I did when my husband was in jail. For the rest, find a copy of her release order and that what will tell you exactly what her conditions were. If she wasn't ordered to drug rehab then she isn't breaching anything. Is Legal Aid an option? Just hold on and hopefully everything will work itself out. Good Luck.
2006-12-06 09:37:46 · answer #2 · answered by Lostlove 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's one thing to stick by someone when they're going through rehab to get their life back together. It's quite another to stick by someone who decided to be irresponsible, miss a class, and then make it worse by taking more drugs. This may sound harsh, but the best thing you can do is put this woman in the rearview mirror and drive away as quickly as you can.
2006-12-06 09:34:06 · answer #3 · answered by clarity 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell her which you and your fiance make judgements mutually and if he says no to giving money than your answer is the comparable. money isn't basic to come back with the aid of these days. if your going to grant somebody money you greater efficient be waiting to on no account see those money lower back. His mom is out of her innovations i would not provide her any money. She's continually going to be a topic as quickly as you marry her son she is going to sense like she ought to ask you for notwithstanding because of the fact your area of the kinfolk. be certain which you do tell your fiance which you're feeling uncomfortable along with his mom soliciting for money and is their some thing he ought to do related to the placement. in case you wreck down and provide her the money she would be able to continually come to you no remember what occurs. She's asking you because of the fact she owes an excellent style of people money and has no intentions on paying them lower back. don't be a sufferer purely say "Hell No".
2016-10-04 23:30:37 · answer #4 · answered by mauzon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as an attorney is concerned, by law, she is eligible for a public defender.
But are you sure this is really the woman you want to marry and have kids with? Drug and alcohol dependancy are inherited traits.
2006-12-06 09:34:14 · answer #5 · answered by concretebrunette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her serve her time ,maybe she will learn something, She is were she belongs. Get on with your life and find someone Elise, My guess is your may be on drugs to, now is the time to straiten your self out and when she gets out if you still feel the same then you will be more able to help her..
2006-12-06 09:34:59 · answer #6 · answered by larry B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure she can and will write you. Try to contact the jail and get her info, so you can write her. Good luck, I have a family member in the pokey.
2006-12-06 09:28:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know that there is anything you can do to stop her from going to prison. I believe jails have visitation.
2006-12-06 09:28:15 · answer #8 · answered by BC 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get a new girlfriend......the last one is a loser!
2006-12-06 09:29:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋