2006-12-06 09:10:16 · 30 answers · asked by me L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
no.
2006-12-06 09:11:56 · answer #1 · answered by mrfoxhorn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I'm waiting for the right person"
"Last time I did it, I really regretted it even though I was sure I wouldn't, so I'm just gonna wait until I'm confortable with it again."
"I was in a sexually abusive relationship before and I really don't think I can be intimate until I feel comfortable again."
"I'm scared because I've never done it. Can we wait till I'm sure I'll be ok?"
"Here? Now? Shouldn't we wait? You really want it done like this? I'm sorry but I don't. I'll let you know when I do though, I promise"
--Also, think of any excuses you have ever used at any time in your life for anything and just adapt them to this scenario. Oh, and if you aren't talking about a serious boyfriend, then "no, get out of my face" or " yeah right, like I'd waste me on you" always works. The guy may get all mad and defensive. But you have really shown him you are to be respected. Besides, any guy that is hard up enough to pressure you into it WOULD be a terrible mistake, and a waste for you.
2006-12-06 17:18:48 · answer #2 · answered by #1 Buckeye Fan!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No is a good answer. If that is not comprehensible a louder no should work. You can also try Heck no, not in this lifetime.never and go away. If they do not understand that avoid all contact with them. Tell them that friends do not harass friends over their raging hormones that they obviously cannot control.
2006-12-06 17:17:35 · answer #3 · answered by The_answer_person 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm assuming your a girl?
anyway, just be honest and say you aren't ready and it's because you aren't ready for 'it' at all not just 'it' with him.
if he tries to pressure you or doesn't understand he's not the guy for you. the right person will want to wait if it's what you're comfortable with because you're happiness and sense of security will matter to them.
it's sounds like a lot to ask but actually it's the minimum you should expect. good luck :)
2006-12-06 17:16:02 · answer #4 · answered by PookyBoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No workes all the time.
2006-12-06 17:12:09 · answer #5 · answered by Lab 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all. if he respects you he won't be upset. sit him down and just tell him that you are very sorry but you are not ready to do it. and if he truly likes you he should understand. if he gets mad to me he doesn't care what you want. and if he doesn't like it well to bad. stay strong and only do it when your ready. and when you are its the best feeling ever. doing it and not wanting to. to me makes you feel like your cheap and your not stand your grounds. good luck.
2006-12-06 17:18:57 · answer #6 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no other way to say it then straight out. Say you dont think they are the ne or something. but if you dont want to then just say so.
2006-12-06 17:13:52 · answer #7 · answered by cleo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i dont want to bang u jeez.J/K just tell them u r not ready
2006-12-06 17:13:03 · answer #8 · answered by hellostarshine0987654321 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just straight out tell them.
2006-12-06 17:13:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best policy. Remember the one you miss out on is the one you never get.
2006-12-06 17:13:06 · answer #10 · answered by graeme1944 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them you either A. like them or B. don't like them or..
tell them you're not ready. thats probably the nicest way.
2006-12-06 17:12:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋