My best friend of 15 years is cheating on her husband (been married 1 year and have a 3 month old son) and she came and stayed with me so she could go with me to the doctor it was a 3 hour drive but the night we got back i went to my b/f's and she went to her "new man's" and she went home with a hickey on her neck she told her husband that i put it on her neck her husband called her parents who i am really close to and her mom called me and told me that they didn't blame me for anything well i told her mom the truth and told her that i didn't do anything cause i'm not bi i'm straight and that i spent the whole weekend in another town her husband called me and asked me if i did it and than i heard him call me a whore and a slut he thinks i'm trying to break up their marriage i am mad at her but she is like my sister she does the things she does without thinking and i've tried telling her that she is hurting the people that care about her the most WHAT should i do?
2006-12-06 08:39:33 · 7 answers · asked by ♥ Ash ♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would just be very clear to everyone that you did not do what she said you did, the truth is her business to tell, not yours, but you don't appreciate her telling lies about you to conceal the truth. Honestly, she may be like your sister, but only a crappy sister would use you to cover her lies. She could have made up any amount of other lies not involving you. That is not cool at all. Maintain your innocence and stay out of the rest of it. Whatever the husband accuses you of or calls you, just tell him that you are sorry that he believes that but you can only tell the truth about your actions and there's nothing else you can do for him. Regarding your "friend", stay away from her until she apologizes and comes clean about your innocence.
2006-12-06 08:52:10 · answer #1 · answered by AJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
help her with her selfimage, and then try to fing out why she isn't commited to her hubby anymore.. as a friend you may have to absorb some blame till the truth comes out..if she refuses to change her life then cut her loose and roll over on her for her childs sake..her fooling around hurts the child the most.
2006-12-06 08:45:28 · answer #2 · answered by spotlite 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her that if she doesn't come clean, you'll tell her husband. Give her one last chance to be honest. She's not much of a friend if she's lying about you like that. She needs a dose of reality and to get her **** together.
2006-12-06 08:43:03 · answer #3 · answered by Heidi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are u her friend, she tried to cover up her lie by blaming the hickey on you. If my best friend did that, I'd leave him/her to deal with that themselves. They are cheating. that's one big mess that they need to deal with. 15 years of friendship is alot, but i'd avoid her if i were u before she gets u into more trouble.
2006-12-06 08:47:53 · answer #4 · answered by xckid62 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing you can do, she has chosen to play around , but do not let her use you for an excuse , tell her if you get any phone calls you will tell the truth, and for her to not ever put you in that position again
2006-12-06 08:50:11 · answer #5 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, she's making a mess of her life and bringing you into it. I would stay away from her until she gets her act together.
2006-12-06 08:51:39 · answer #6 · answered by Bwilkerson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'WoW' that's alot, well if i were you i would first ask your friend to either admit to her husband or tell her husband yourself...
2006-12-06 08:44:37 · answer #7 · answered by steamhead10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋