yeah i'm kinda having a problem. my life is turning the other way around, i feel mad lonely, and everythings become a big problem. im a 7th grader and i like girls more than guys. i had boyfriends a while ago, but now i want a girlfriend. where can i meet a girl? everyone says im too young on here, but i just cant live like this. im dying for a gf. i even cry alot since i noticed im "bi". its just what i am, and i wont stop feelin this bad until i find someone i actually want. i just need some advice and how i can get a girlfriend. my hater in my old school spread around that im bi and i got made fun of alot, and even the girls i like know that i do and think its gross. i just need a girlfriend, and im not too young if ur thinking that. i might still be in 7th grade, but my mind is way past that.
2006-12-06 08:38:03 · 22 answers · asked by Lil D 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
and i do have a best friend but its a guy, but he has a girlfriend and that makes me mad jealous
2006-12-06 08:47:12 · update #1
I hope some gay people can direct you to a website that can give you some idea where you could go in your city to meet other "bi's". But try to be happy with yourself - don't deny liking girls better - just say "guys gross me out!" Smile and be happy - if there are any girls like you in your school (in high school there will be proportionally more) - they'll be attracted to your confidence. Your sexual orientation is nobody's business but your own. Be strong, be happy!
2006-12-06 08:45:17 · answer #1 · answered by Miz Teri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't say I know how u feel with your feeling for the same sex, however, I can tell u that more and more teens are understanding their sexuality earlier, now, than years before. U don't want your schoolmates to shun u at your new school so u have to be more discreet & careful. Maybe try an on-line dating service for girls with your gender preference. I can tell you that a relationship is a relationship. Take your time you have all the time in the world for everything that comes along with having a partner. At your age people are recognizing their "different feeling" and not acting on them because of the scrutiny from the public, family, and friends. I can't tell u how to feel but I do know that this too may pass and if it doesn't that's OK too. Enjoy your youth it goes by sooo quickly. When the right person is available for you they will somehow come to you. I find that when I'm not looking that's when I'm found. Everything happens for a reason and some people are only for a season.
2006-12-06 16:50:54 · answer #2 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to realize that you do not NEED a girlfriend or boyfriend. And yes you are young, but that is a great thing. There a lot things going on in mind and body right now that will cause you to over emphasize the necessity of that which you desire. I am not denying your sexual orientation, just your physical age, and if your mind is way past that age then you will understand what I'm is true. I am sure that a girl that has the same feeling as you do will come into your life. Don't push for it, relax enjoy life as it comes to you. One day at a time. When yo ucome fully into acceptance of who you are no one else can hurt you with words, I know that they do hurt but just don't listen and come into knowing yourself.
2006-12-06 16:45:07 · answer #3 · answered by Mike E 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Awwww it's normal to feel that way when you first turn Bi.
I did too in High school. Don't let those idiots make fun of you for being Bi or Gay. They are just idiots and don't know how it feels. You are at a good age to have those feelings for girls. I'm sure there will be a girl for you that will love you the same way.
2006-12-06 16:41:07 · answer #4 · answered by Cuddly Lez 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You should maybe go to a different school. Start dating boys. Stand up for yourself. I'm a pre teen girl too and I have bff and we sometimes kiss and do other things that are gross.Some people who are my friends think it's gross.Good luck finding the right gf and good luck with school.
2006-12-06 16:45:47 · answer #5 · answered by Carrie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were in your place, and I'm a guy, so say thtI would be in your place emotionally and yet a guy, I would try to put it off until you grow up a bit.
Please understand, you are partially a slave to your hormones. They are changing and you are too young to make certain decisions. Be strong, and keep yourself away from making more problems than it's worth.
Self control is what I am saying. It's not bad to tell yourself "no."
2006-12-06 16:43:41 · answer #6 · answered by Christian Sinner 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not saying you shouldn't have a gf, but you are young and should focus on your studies. Go to college and you'll meet a ton of girls just like you. Don't worry about it, you don't have to be with someone to be happy.
2006-12-06 16:42:23 · answer #7 · answered by justme 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is no need ot feel sad or bad or anything, everyone is unique, this world is really good at making ppl who arent "normal" feel like they are bad or not "normal"
you have a whole life ahead of you, there is nothing to gain by being upset by anything like this in this life, it is ok, no one is "normal"
no one knows what "normal" is
everyone is different
i am the easter wabbit
if ppl dont liek me for what i am then i dont talk to them or worry about it, i just move on til i find ppl that are like me
you should do the same, in this life :D and be as happy and open minded and positive and helpful as you can :D this is what to do in this life
good luck :D
happy easter :D
2006-12-06 16:43:46 · answer #8 · answered by mr wabbit 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im against bi ppl.. God made Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve... UR WAY 2 YOUNG 1 more thing seventh graders shouyldnt even use yahooo answers.... im in grade 8 u loser
2006-12-07 17:26:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your how old, what maybe 12?
You ARE too young!
Your body is still changing, growing, so is your mind and your heart.
You're noticing other girls because they're changing too, that's what most psychologists call NORMAL ADOLESCENCE!
2006-12-06 16:43:13 · answer #10 · answered by DEATH 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋