I am in the marching band (i know it's geeky) and I can't seem to make friends with any of the people in my grade. I'm a sophmore. I was friends with a couple of the sophmores, but they started talking to the seniors and stopped talking to me.
I always feel left out whenever I'm around them. I hate it so much and they make me feel bad. I even hate it that I want to quit band. But I do have friends that are juniors and freshmen. But I don't want to hang around them all the time. I'm so confused. Any suggestions?
2006-12-06 08:34:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just be yourself! Dont drop out of band just to make friends. If band is what you really like, stick to it!
Dont try to live up to ANYONES expectations but your own. Find people with similar intrests as you by joining a few clubs around your school that sound interesting to you.
Remember. Dont try to make friends but changing who you are. Those people arent really friends.
Good luck, and i hope this helps!
2006-12-06 08:39:52 · answer #1 · answered by onekewlpenguin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying about which class your friends are in and you'll be ok. Try and seek out someone else in marching band that might be feeling the same way.
2006-12-06 16:39:17 · answer #2 · answered by Evoljz_Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WOULD, WAIT AND LISTEN TO SEE IF SOMEONE STARTS
TALKING ABOUT SOMETHING YOU HAVE AN INTEREST ABOUT AND KINDA OFFER AN OPINION AND START TO JOIN INTO THE CONVERSATION. THEN OFFER YOUR NAME IF THEY SEEM INTERESTED IN WHAT YOU HAVE TO SAY, HOPEFULLY FORM THAT POINT YOU CAN DEVELOP A FRIENDSHIP. BUT RATHER IN THE SAME GRADE OR NOT JUST EXCEPT THE FRIENDS THAT YOU DO HAVE AND BE GRATEFUL YOU HAVE THEM ESPECIALLY IF THEY ARE THE ONES THERE FOR YOU NOW.
2006-12-06 16:44:33 · answer #3 · answered by Manie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok its gut check time... step out of yourself and look at you. I have to do this. and make improvements as you can.. chck your personal hygiene toothbrushingetc, and try to make yourself appealing.if u need to shape up then do so. and do NOT FALL INTO THE LIFECHANGING HABITS THAT WILL RUIN YOUR LIFE JUST TO BE POPULAR. You are a beautiful person so let your beauty shine.. and practice to be 1st chair ,, that works too.
2006-12-06 16:40:55 · answer #4 · answered by spotlite 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to new people........................
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2006-12-06 16:41:14 · answer #5 · answered by Cici 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-12-06 16:47:15 · answer #6 · answered by 0110111001101111 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋