My wife and i had sex the other night and the minuted i inserted she screamed I stopped and asked her what was wrong and she said where i inserted had pushed up way to far.
The next day we go to the doctor...
Doctor says that her vagina is closing in and i should hold the insert in for 10 minutes and it should open.
We did it and she screamed...
She INSISTS we have sex, she said she doesn't mind the pain.
What are some positions to open up the vagina?{explaination pleases.}
2006-12-06 08:32:04 · 8 answers · asked by Nicky G 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Let her do the driving
2006-12-06 08:33:41 · answer #1 · answered by Chloe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I am pregnant, due Christmas Eve with my 7th.
I have never encountered pain but I understand what the doctor is talking about.
The vaginal wall will open more the more she is aroused also. Take a bit more time with non-penetrating affections, especially to the areas she likes kissed etc. ( even a back massage will do the trick for some women) It is also best, not to engage in sex following a squabble or paying the bills.
As for a position, entering from behind gets the weight of the baby off the vaginal wall a little. Another great idea is to let her be on the "upside" and choose the depth and speed for comfort.
Pregnancy can be frustrating at times when it comes to sex, but I know from experience that it can also be a time of exploring new delights and depths of intimacy.
Congratulations for both of you on your new arriving little one.
2006-12-06 08:52:14 · answer #2 · answered by Threeicys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't mind it, then go for it. A good position is to put a pillow under her butt. This raises her in a position that will open her vagina up. Plus, if she doesn't mind the pain, it goes deeper & feels better than just missionary sex.
2006-12-08 06:46:26 · answer #3 · answered by Jaysangl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband and i were also having problems with at i am now 35 weeks pregnant. we found that me laying on my side with him straddling one of my legs and holing the other one also doggy style works but only some times.
2006-12-06 08:42:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try the spoon position (Where you lay on your side facing her back) or you lay on your side and she lays on her back (looks like a T) and start VERY slowly and be gentle.
2006-12-06 08:37:28 · answer #5 · answered by Summer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go back door. Should solve lots of problems.
2006-12-06 08:45:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try this site it has some good positions
www.sexinfo101.com/
2006-12-06 13:25:51 · answer #7 · answered by Ivy Leaf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
her on top or doggy.
2006-12-06 08:35:03 · answer #8 · answered by Tasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋