What do you feel is wrong with a person that has had many marriages?

Answer 1

I think they have very low self-esteem and seek out people they know from the beginning won't work out. They feel that is all they are worth and that they can't do any better. This usually happens because of childhood trauma.

It's very sad, but also very predictable.

Answer 2

first you have to ask, who is the common denominator in all of these marriages?

Most (not all) people who have had many marriages refuse to examine their ownselves and take responsibility for the wrong they have done or the lack of what they've done to keep their marriages. Most of what may be wrong with a person begins during their childhood. And many people have different views of what marriage is about based on what they saw/learned as they were raised up.

Answer 3

I don't know. Both my mom & dad have been married five times. I know that with my dad, I think the problem was that he only dated very beautiful women, wined and dined them, usually they lived far away and when he'd propose, they'd just say yes but later couldn't deal with the area he lives in. It's extremely rural and cold. Also, he is an absolute work-aholic and some I think left because he works about 12 hrs a day, 6 days a week. Others were not his fault. His first wife left him because her family said they'd disinherit her and she woulda lost $6 mil. So she left him (he could offer her nothing like that) and went back home. I know my mom got lonely. With my mom, i don't know. I know one of her husbands severly beat her and her brothers finally had to go rescue her. I think maybe the rest might have been for financial security. Regardless of what my parents did, my Grandma & Grandpa were married 67!! years. Three years after Grandpa died G-ma was still saying "we". She is my role model & was truly an angel. I hope I may follow in her footsteps but I am already divorced myself, which i feel so embarrased & ashamed about even though it wasn't my fault. (He left me because his parents hated me and I wouldn't convert & become a Mormon) - he knew this before we ever got married. So there you have it. People make mistakes and now we seem to live in a throw away society. Nothing is repaired, it's replaced. Unfortunately, I think many people have that attitude with marriage too. (I don't).

Answer 4

I think they strongly believe in marriage but, they fall out of love once the going gets rough, then they immediately start looking for a new love because they dont like being alone and there they go again getting married. Its a pattern.

Answer 5

I don't believe there is anything wrong with these people either. I think they had the best of intentions when they got married and were hoping it'd be forever. Sometimes things don't work out or you realize you got toegether for the wrong reasons. Maybe you fall out of love or realize you didn't love them the way married people should love each other. Maybe it's just bad luck and they keep ending up with people who mistreat them. You can't judge people in this situation because you don't know what the circumstances were surrounding it.

Answer 6

Nothing. She or he has not found the person where the relationship is effortless.. One should not stay married if it is not working. People just fall out of love. Some people are working through trust and abuse issues and the real reason.

They did not trust in God to help them find the right mate, and they just got in the way of the universe. Completely out of alignment.

Answer 7

The only thing I could think of is that maybe they made the decision to marry a little too quickly, but of course, not always. You know, maybe they should have thought it through a little better first.

Answer 8

Nothing is wrong with them, they just rush in too quickly or are preoccupied with the feeling of being in love. Or maybe they're in it for the money.

Answer 9

it takes two to make a marriage Some dont know how to love...i knew someone once who was on her 7th She had fallen for losers and was a sweet person...my ex was abusive and impotent and chauvanistic...it wasnt me...it was him..

Answer 10

he/she doesn't want to settle down and can't seem to find the right man or woman so he/she rushes in too quickly to later find out thats not their real love.